To those who have ghosted or been ghosted after months?


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    Becky

    If you feel like it will be too much to see him, you don’t have to. You can respond back and say, something has come up and I cannot get my sweatshirt, don’t really need it that badly.

    #755099

    DD

    I’d respond saying I couldn’t make it if I felt seeing him would set me back emotionally.

    Can you ask him to just mail the sweatshirt or drop it off at your house (while you’re at work)?

    Then you’d have it back without throwing yourself into unwanted emotional turmoil.

    Save your peace of mind!

    #769859

    Alex

    I personally, wouldn’t ghost anyone. Theres a better way to do bad things. I think, regardless of how you are treated, you do the right thing, because you’re a good person. Even if you send a “it’s over” text, or a basic means to an end. Communicating your exit is a must. What you do thereafter is entirely your call. Go no contact, block them etc, thats your call. However I personally feel its the RIGHT thing to do by communicating its ended.

    Wanting or hoping for someone to wonder & never have that closure? Shows your character more than anything.

    #769861

    Ewa

    do you know why people ghost, because they don’t want to completely end it with you in case it doesn’t work out with another person they can always come back.
    the problem here is not the ghoster is the people being ghosted who whenever ghost comes back they welcome them with their arms open hence why people do that because they know they can

    #769889

    ANM Staff
    Keymaster

    This is certainly a popular topic! Does this story sound just like yours? Go ahead and start a new thread, and share your story with the community!

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