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Phoebe, I have no idea what he’s doing. I haven’t been in contact at all these past two weeks, but he keeps coming back. I just wanted some advice on sending a message regarding myself moving on and why I deleted him. I have had the discussion with him in the past as to what I expect and we had a difference of opinion on what our relationship was. It seems he doesn’t feel there’s anything wrong. He will go all week with no contact and then try to contact me over the weekend, but I’ve not been answering or available. Today was the first time during the week he’s texted me in three weeks. He told me he was going to call me tonight and I basically said “you don’t need to.” He asked me what my problem was (rude) – so he obviously doesn’t get the whole picture here. I did not respond and I have not heard from him. It’s for the best. Just wanted some advice on what to say to bring this to a closure. that’s all. Thax, girls.
Ok.
Have him call you so you can hear each others voices. Tell him that the reason you are walking away is that you finally realized that what he wants and what you want are different and cannot get better.
You have chosen to stop the relationship and move on to find someone who gets you and you get them. It is time to say goodbye and have a nice life.
Also, do not go back…do not change your mind….make this final.
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