Men who Send Selfies

Does anyone else wonder if a guy sends out the same selfie to a bunch of girls on his “roster”? The guy I am casually seeing sends selfies and I get the feeling that he sending them to other women as well, especially since it might be a 40 minute old picture. What’s he trying to do? Remind me he’s hot?

@Richard – amen to everything you said! LOL

Yeeeah I know but the truth is I want to in some messed up way. Let me tell you I’m totally normal person and we’ve never been sending eachother selfies, sexy stuff etc So his sudden 3 or 4 selfies shook me. We have very limited communication and he still does that. I simply cannot understand why as I would never do that. He’s a freakin’ painter could this be somehow important? Why send selfies to his ex girl LOL

Yeah I get that, thank you. I just don’t think blocking him is an adult thing to do. We may still bump into eachother etc.

Why does he send selfies? He is bored. Does he only send them to you? Probably not. But if you wnat to feel flattered and be gullible, indulge away. It doesn’t take much to impress you obviously. Who cares if you see him around somewhere. He’s only a guy you dated for four months abdhe wasn’t all that into you. You look like 5e fool, not him. You know he’s dating someone so you respond and engage with him anyway. Dumb

yeah I am going thru the same problem again. I met this guy through an online dating app and we met when he was visiting my city. I got to know hes not divorced and merely separated from his wife and all his relatives were trying to get them together. he made a pass and I told him sorry but am not interested. I don’t date separated men. he went bac to his city. weird thing is he keeps sending me his facial closeup selfies. and all look the same except in different shirts. I tried to tell him that am not keen but hes not taking the hint. He knows I am not interested in him nor in a fling with him. he still persists in sending me his face selfies. I finally told him my bf so my phone and asked me about him. so would he please stop sending me his pics. I know easy way out but I just couldn’t tell him bluntly to stop.

I don’t get women who just can’t ignore a text message. Making up a lie to stop someone from texting is m more immature than blocking or ignoring. it’s not weird. it’s effective. y’all complain about getting the pics but then still go out of your way to provide attention and a response. That’s why guys keep sending them because dumb women get the men off by reacting. so stupid. and unfortunately a sign of the times. God forbid a woman not answer a text or not get excited everytime she gets a text.

ummm dumb? really? immature? what do u do if the guy keeps sending his selfies despite you ignoring and not commenting on his pics? he is otherwise a nice guy and u don’t mind having him around as a casual friend? why not use a small lie if it keeps everyone happy ? don’t see anything dumb nor immature about it.

A guy friend who I’ve been friends with for years but nothing ever happened between us (but we both had crushes at different times) recently sent me two pics of himself, one doing a sporting event, one a week later at work. It was cute. I commented on both pictures, the first one saying I liked his stance (he was pitching a baseball) and the second one I said he looked handsome. I wasn’t sure what he meant by these pictures. Does he perhaps like me? Should I send a picture/selfie back? I don’t take a lot of pics of myself but I wouldn’t mind sending him a selfie…

I love this stuff! Given you’ve been talking for a while or actually know him. It’s sweet and let’s you know they’re thinking of you. People now days are so self absorbed that when someone finally send you pictures of themselves, that by the way they obviously planned out (if it was good enough or not) and your freak out over there selfie… that’s what’s unattractive. If you’re freaking out first off why? This world is cold enough and man need reassurance and complements too. Second off, if you take a bomb ass selfie or a selfie that may not be as attractive and you send it to them. Obviously this goes both ways, but it’s a sign of trust and you should reassure that trust with a complement. I mean they’re at least sending that selfie to you instead of posting it on social media for random strangers to obsess with. He cares what you think, not them. And it becomes obvious when he sends YOU pictures. Why does he need to ask first? What does he ask? Do you want him to be like “hey girl wanna see my face?” Do you ask social media if they wanna see your face before you post a photo? No? Good- because asking would be more creepy and more of a red flag then just a random selfie- let’s just be honest here.