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June 1, 2020 at 5:38 am #791770
Hi, I’m really not sure if he serious with me or not. We have been together for almost 7 months. We have spend almost our time together and enjoying our time together. Especially when we doing sex together. He even want me to stay and live with him. But because I live with my parents I cannot stay with him more than 2 or 3 days.
However, he never validate our relationship by saying that he loves me or Im his girlfriend. He just saying that he will prove it through action not words. His friends know he with me but I never meet his friends. When we spend our time together, all the gestures shows that he also love me. But he always joking and teasing by looking to others women when we in car.
This make me feel so insecure for our relationship because he didn’t tell me what his feeling about me. And also he didn’t let me check his phone. One day, I saw another women text him again. Then he reply it and tell me he not into that women just asking why she text him back. He also said that I’m the only one he treat special than others.
I don’t know what to do know.. Because I know when I’m asking him again, he will not answer it. Is it true action better than words??June 1, 2020 at 6:46 am #791777
No. Actions AND words. If he is not calling you his girlfriend and it has been more than 3 months. End it. And if he is not introducing you, he is not integrating you into his life and he is not planning to.
Bob, I have so much enjoyed being with you. The reality is I want a relationship with words, titles and actions. I appreciate you feel that actions are the most important, but I want a fully integrated life and actions are simply not enough. I think it is best we no longer see each other as we have already discussed this and you have made your position clear. I wish you the absolute best.
Discussing this more will not get you what you want. He already showed you that. Walking away might. But go find it with someone else. Someone else will call and act like a boyfriend.June 2, 2020 at 3:35 am #791844
He’s manipulating you. He doesn’t introduce you to anyone because he knows he will dump you someday and he doesn’t have to explain to them. When he dumps you or sleeps with someone else, he will say sth like ” we are not a couple”