Is he in love, introverted, or uniterested??

These posts are old but I had a similar experience and I learned that every situation is different and there are many reasons and variables for relationships to stay in neutral. I jet this guy when I was going through the end of my marriage. A 24 year relationship. He really liked me but was careful and honest as he knew where I was emotionally. He is a very introverted guy with his own stress and ex wife drama. He didnt want a relationship and had the capability to keep his distance and enjoy our little time together. In the beginning he did make effort, but he became distant and protected. Introverted men do this and need more space, and if a man doesnt want a relationship, its not about us really. Hard for me as a woman who really liked him to stay in neutral, but Im grateful he was in my life as he was probably exactly what I needed for that time. Its been 2 years and Im letting go, and maybe at some point he will come back. He was here for a reason, sadly short term. He was gentle and careful at a time I was vulnerable and not ready either. He was calming and helped me learn to heal on my own, which I needed. He was an incredible lover and enjoyed being me every time. He made me feel comfortable, safe and sexy. As Louise Hay says, relationships all have a lifespan and there is a reason for them. I was the initiator almost every time, as I needed him more than he needed. I did chase, but he came back alot, when he was ready. I fell in love with him and it was too hard for me to keep that kind of relationship, as he does not feel, or wont let himself feel the same. Just a perspective of how we see men and relationships. It did add another bruise to my healing but I learned alot. Hard when we like someone so much.

Grey