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Michelle
Hey guys, just want your thoughts on this….
I’ve been a member of this gym in Australia for a few years now and only the past 4 months that I’ve started exchanging text messages with one of the instructors there. Due to Covid I havent seen him in the studio, it’s all through Zoom when we do our classes. He seems like a nice guy don’t come across as a player. Our text messages are very lengthy. It’s recently that I feel there is something going on between us. And I’m sure he feels the same. But what I also notice is that his text replies at night times and weekends are really slow in responding back to me. Sometimes he wouldn’t respond till 11pm when I send him a text around 7/8pm on a Saturday. This seems to be like a pattern.
He tells me he is single and lives by himself. Because Australia is still in lockdown he can’t be going out so my only thinking is that he either have a gf or wife and they obviously lives together.
Unfortunately I don’t use Facebook nor Instagram so I can’t stalk him.
Do you guys agree with my thinking?
Thanks
Tallspicy
It doesn’t matter. Why are you initiating any discussion with a man not your boyfriend if you like him romantically? It is his job to do that and move it forward and if he is not, why does not matter.
Newbie
I feel that you overinvested already if you count the hours after your last texts. He hasnt asked you out, so he should not be more than a blip on your radar. Texting creates a false sense of intimacy for women real fast but for guys not so much so beware of that. When it comes to his text routine: who knows?
I would never date a gym instructor myself, i know it sounds superficial, but im afraid they are superficial 😄
You are the girl that dated a miner a few years ago right? That suddenly started to build a boat. And went poof. Somehow that story and your name got stuck in my head.
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