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Tori
I really like this guy from University, currently it’s the summer and we are from different countries so I haven’t seen him in three months. We have been texting/snapping mainly sending audio messages everyday since I’ve been home. We FaceTime as well but less frequently as it’s hard to find a time to due to work and the time difference. When we do its very easy and never awkward.
Before the end of the semester we were hanging out quite a lot, he introduced me to some of his friends (he’d already told them about me as they new who I was when they met me). We have a mutual friend and their relationship is very different to ours he treats her like a bro whereas I can definitely feel something between us. This sounds insignificant but if we ever hang out just the three of us he will always sit next to me and find excuses to touch me in some way or another. He has this ring that I once took to fiddle with as I have a bad habit of picking at the skin by my nails to the point they bleed. So whenever I see him now he gives me the ring to play with and gets upset if I ever pick the skin by my nails.
He always offers to walk me home at night although I have mostly declined as I didn’t want to put him out. Most of these occasions we were with other people and I wouldn’t want them to feel like they had to walk me home with him. He always made me text him when I got back home to make sure I was safe.
We get on really well and he’s told me all about his family who I haveI met over FaceTime. He teases me all the time and I do the same but he will also sit and listen to me rant about my bad days at work, he always offers me advice when I’m stressed and never lets my feeling be invalidated. He’ll tell me he’s proud of me and it makes my stomach flutter.He seems like the perfect person for me.
Unfortunately in the past I’ve had bad experiences with men so I have a lot of deep rooted insecurities that I’m struggling to look past. So what I’m trying to figure out is, does it sound like he likes me?
I know this is a lot I needed to get my feelings out
Ewa
it sounds like he likes you, but it also looks like you haven’t really had a chance to be on your own, do you usually meet up in a group of friends?
I am pretty sure if he wanted to walk you home/be with you , just the two of you, he would say to his friends, ok guys I’ll see you later and walk you home even if you said no…
are you going back to the same uni after summer?
So far , reading this again, he likes you but like a friend, I will wait and see what happens when you come back after summer break.
also why is his friend always with him when you hang out?Tammy
He likes you but unless he plans a date, asks you out, this is just friendship and he seems happy to keep it that way for the present.
Maddie
Did he walk you home alone the times you accepted, or did the friends come each time? If it was alone, then he sounds like he may be interested but may think you just want to be friends since you often turned down his walks. Assume you’re friends until he asks you out, but sometimes guys in uni can be a little nervous or move slow (at least the inexperienced ones).
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