Hurt my Long distance Boyfriend. Is he done with me?

Just be yourself.
You have nothing to apologize to. Be available, be warm and inviting, but you don’t owe him an apologize.

Maybe send him some funny memes. A secret fear of men is a partner who is often uptight, angry, or without humor.

Good luck.

It’s been a week since he has emotionally detached from me. He still sends me good morning and good night and yesterday he send me a picture of a store and told me he’s there.
But then his messages are without any emotions Like before.
I tried to just reply to whatever he texts me in a friendly tone and manner.
I don’t know if he just need time or he is thinking about a break up.
I really don’t know if I should send an apology and tell him again that I love him and want to make the relationship work again.

Yes, I don’t have concrete evidences and yes i was stupid. We are both mature adults so i was really really stupid. I wish I hadn’t do that. We already talked on the phone a week ago and he was sad that I didn’t trust him. I said i love you to him but he didn’t say It back. When I asked him, he said he will tell me his feelings when he wants to.
After that phone call, i still get his text every day but usually just good morning and good night and he stopped calling me the sweet name that he used to call me. I also refrain myself from texting him unless he text me first as I don’t want him to feel pressured. He also stopped calling me since that last call.
I realised I hurt him so much so i don’t dare to bring the topic up again and apologise as i worry that he will disappear totally then.
I am trying to give him time and space but I don’t know what’s on his mind. I don’t want to lose him and i really want to make the relationship work again. I already made the worst mistake. I don’t want to make another one again.

How far is the distance? How often do you see each other?

I don’t think you were stupid. I think your gut was telling you something was off, and you reacted to those alarm bells. A woman’s instinct is pretty strong, so when those spidey senses start tingling, I wouldn’t sweep them under the rug. However, I wouldn’t make an accusation unless I had some definitive proof, which a little *investigating* can uncover if you know how to seek it out. I think you caught him which is why he’s acting the way he is because a man who isn’t guilty wouldn’t behave this way, he would be “understanding” especially because your LD, and go out of his way to allay your fears by SHOWING YOU that you are the only one he is, and wants to be with.

I am in an LD, and have been for over three years. I’ve had a couple of those *nagging feelings* when I could feel him pull away a bit or his conversations with me changed. I however sat on it, gave him space, and he picked right back up again a day later, so I knew it was my overactive mind, and one of those *one off’s* for him. This however takes time to develop, by carefully watching them, when together, so to get a really good sense, and benchmark of their behaviors so when your spidey senses (intuition) goes off, you can sit back, and observe, to see if its something to worry about or not.

My BF is an open book. He naturally feels compelled to tell me all the little details about his day, whereas, if he stopped then I would know something is up, and would definitely investigate or confront him. For instance, last night, after spending the July 4th weekend with him, and driving home (about six hours) I turned on “Furbo” (a dog camera with treat dispenser) which I had just installed at his house, as its at mine when our dog is with me. I initially was going to pop our dog a treat but decided to watch instead, OK spy a little haha. He was talking with his brother in his arm chair when he got up, and took our dog outside. For about 20 minutes he stayed on the front porch where he let our dog in, and out, a couple times which is normal. He then called me, and literally recited everything I had just seen on Furbo, including his phone call to his brother, and letting our dog in/out lol. Maybe you should give him a “Furbo” if he has a dog :o)

This doesnt really sound like a relationship. From what you say, its long distance without callls, without meeting up. Just a good morning text here and there. Plus you had suspicions about him.
Have you two actually met or is this virtual?
Take his invite to talk. If he wants to break up, there is really nothing you can do except tell yourself you dont want a guy who doesnt want you