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    Beth

    I had downloaded a dating app just to pass my time on my way back to home. And i matched with a guy who is almost seems like a guy version of me. We have lots of similarities. Lots. And we ended up connecting with each other on socials in a few days. He is good looking and has a way with words. He is a writer and film-maker. He asked me out 2 times. Currently I am in a different city. And I will be back in his town by the end of this month. I told him this. So we have planned to meet on the 28th of October. I am excited. However, I know this is all virtual and can feel different when we actually meet so I was just wondering how much we should really talk to each other till we meet on the 28th and what kind of things we should talk about? He sends me a good morning voice note and then stays busy with his shoot. And then he starts texting and exchanging voice notes the moment he’s done with work till we fall asleep. I can hear the train noises, his food sounds etc lol it’s funny and cute.

    Also, another thing I have noticed is that when we discuss something and he tries to sound inteligent about something, I ALWAYS seem to know about it as I am already very well read. He even joked you always know everything. Do you think i could be coming across as intimidating to him? I am not going to change myself obviously, I was just wondering how do guys actually feel about such women.

    #942774 Reply
    Raven

    Do you two live in the same city?

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    AngieBaby

    Talking every day for three weeks until you meet, not a great idea. Neither is connecting on social media before you meet. You are creating a false sense of connection and intimacy. You’ll think you know each other by the time you meet and you do not. Almost every time I’ve over communicated before a date it’s been a disappointment. Problem is, it’s going to be very hard to back off since you’ve already started this pattern. Be less available, do other things. You’re already sounding too far into this and questioning how you’re coming across to him. Way too soon for that. I take the attitude of “he seems nice… we’ll see how it goes.” If it’s a few weeks before you can get together, I’d trade messages once or twice a week about something light and that’s all.

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    Ewa

    Hmm i would stop talking to him and said I will be in touch once i am back in town, if you are still free I’d be happy to meet.
    Otherwise you are getting to know him over text and that’s never a good idea !

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