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    Apple

    How do I win this guy who “just got out of a serious relationship and am not looking for anything”

    I am probably not a stereotypical kind of woman – I don’t like to wait for man, I chase. And I like that I am successful at chasing them.

    I recently got a guy’s contact (I asked) and I wanted to ask him out, nothing serious – just hanging out, unless he want anything else! He work near where I live and I have access to his work.

    I think he may have hesitated but the text I got from him was “I just got out of a relationship and am not looking for anything right now” – note, it’s not “anything serious”, it’s “anything”.

    I am not looking to develop a relationship with him at the moment of my life, but I really like him and want to spend some time with him. I don’t mind being a “rebound” or anything casual – whatever suits him but I want a chance with him!

    I am definitely not going to be clingy or asking for “exclusive” after he just broke up. It is not what I want anyway.

    Does it help if I make myself look good when I see him (makeup and dress etc)? I don’t think I am ugly (from the past experience) but I don’t know how else I am going to convince him and win him over? I don’t want to do the texting anymore, can I just go visit him and talk to him face to face?

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    Raven

    If you are so successful chasing, why are you here asking for advice?!

    #852145 Reply

    Tallspicy

    Dont feel the trolls. Made up story. Moderator, please look into.

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    Tallspicy

    Oops, feel or feed…

    #852244 Reply

    LnJ

    This dude is saying “no, not interested”, so you don’t go after him. We wouldn’t give advice to a man trying to pursue a woman despite her saying no, and the reverse is true as well.

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