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AngieBaby.
CostaGarcia
I met this guy, we started dating, everything was fine, until I realized he was still super close to his ex, talked, saw each other, etc. He said he was ready for a relationship but then…after discussing the whole ex situation and how he would jump to run for her and do things as soon as she reached out, he said he wasnt ready for a relationship. So we just stopped talking, will he come back? should I contact him some months later?
mama
Don’t contact him. He’s shown you that he isn’t interested in you;m he is most likely still hung up on his ex.
Don’t accept second fiddle. Find a man who is not ambivalent about having you in his life, and makes you a priority. If he comes back it will be because things didn’t work out with his ex. Don’t fall for it.
Raven
Why would you want to re-contact him later?
AngieBaby
He’s not done with her, he’s still involved. Either she’s not really an ex or he is working to get her back.
Any of that means you need to be done with him, permanently. Why on earth would you want a man who’s hung up on someone else??
CostaGarcia
You are all right. In my mind I thought that maybe eventually he will want a relationship…but not now since he seem to still be heartbroken and figuring himself out and he said his previous relationship was definitely over.
AngieBaby
He is lying to himself and lying to you. His words and his actions confirm that. This is not about you. Walk away.
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