He is not contacting me anymore

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    I have been on 3 dates with this guy. We agreed to see each other again. I contacted him few days after our last date, he responded immediately, but then he ignored my follow-up text/question (the message is still marked as unread). It have been 5 days now. What should I do? Text him again? Or should I just forget about him?

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    You should move on, that seems to be exactly what he’s doing. Don’t reach out, don’t text him, don’t stalk him. Don’t internalize it or try to figure out what you did right/wrong/backwards/upsidedown etc…

    Sometimes it doesn’t work out and that’s okay. No rhyme or reason why. Now focus on other prospects and move forward with other opportunities. :)

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    Bummer… Move on.

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    If you’re sure he’s alive and well and present online, then it’s safe to assume that he is deliberately choosing not to reply you.

    Don’t contact him,he’s going out of his way to ignore you, you’ll just end up more hurt and frustrated when he doesn’t reply or doesn’t tell you what you want to hear.

    Unfortunately it happens that sometimes you think the chemistry is going great then someone chucks you the deuces.

    And please don’t take their behavior personal or try to think there is something wrong with you. A lot of the time it has to do with the other person and their own reality which has nothing to do with you.

    Onto the next one!

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