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Ashley
In august we broke up,it was a bad break up and even tho he was the one in the wrong he blocked me on WhatsApp.
2 months later I message him on fb messenger.
We start talking on there and he says that he didn’t want to block me on everything (so I assumed he meant he still wanted to talk to me)
He contacted me a few times and sent some messages.
He was telling me about his new job etc.
Then other days he will just reply two words replies and it’s like he doesn’t want to chat.
So today I said “are you going to unblock me on WhatsApp”
He said “no I can’t be bothered if you kick off again so I’m keeping you blocked”
Yet we speak on messenger ..it’s no different is it?
Is he playing mind games ?
He knows I’m upset he blocked me
I’ve asked him twice now to unblockKaylie
He’s not playing games, he’s not interested in you anymore. He’ll answer you and talk to you when he’s bored and has nothing else going on, but there’s nothing more to it then that. Yes, you should leave him alone because it’s not worth the effort and the time you’re wasting that you could be using to find someone who is interested in you.
Raven
Why would you want to have anything to do with a guy that blocked you?
mama
“even tho he was the one in the wrong he blocked me on WhatsApp.”
“I’ve asked him twice now to unblock ”
“He said “no I can’t be bothered if you kick off again so I’m keeping you blocked””Leave him alone. Your actions are making you look desperate.
Ashley
I haven’t just been messaging him asking him to unblock me.
We have been having conversations.
I just said to him rather than talking on here,are you going to unblock me.mama
You seem to be missing the point. You broke up. Move on. You aren’t together anymore, so move on. He’s only talking with you to fill time when he’s bored. Move on.
And maybe read Raven’s post a few hundred times to remind yourself.
Ashley
I think I feel so vulnerable as my mum passed away 2 months ago and he was really nasty to me.
I needed support and he was horrible.
I just wanted him to care and just to be looked after.
I know he’s no good and he’s not a nice person,I don’t know why I want himNewbie
You should stop acting like a doormat. Yes im harsh but this is over the top. This is an ex who was bad to you, blocked you and you kept begging him for his attention. You really lack selfrespect and i wish you all the power to build it up. Next year. No one should be allowed to walk over you like that. You should have blocked him from the start.
And yes, i get that losing your mom is awefull and leaves you wanting consolation, love and care. Go for that to your family and friends, not from a guy who treats you bad. A new year is around the corner, take this guy out to the trash and improve yourself -
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