Did he should genuine? Do I give him another chance?


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    Jess A

    We’ve been dating for about a month and it’s been going well. I really like him and we connect a lot of things.

    We were heavily making out in his car for the first time and it was great. I was okay letting his hands roam under my shirt. Eventually he tried to slide his hands under my pants at th back to touch my butt but I was ready for that. I also have some anxiety related to sex.

    I moved his hands away and he did that a few more times and I had told him no as well. Eventually I got upset and he realized it and stopped. He said his hands were naturally moving there without much thought and he’s sorry. I stayed quiet and he asked me what’s on my mind and that I can share. I told him that he needs to listen and not push. And that I need it to go slow, he said he’s on board with that and my comfort is important to him and for his comfort. And that he didn’t mean to make it seem like he’s pushing.

    We made some small talk and said bye and people I left I once again told him not to push and for which he apologized again.

    It seemed genuine and I believed him and I do think he’s a good guy. But am I being naive? Does he deserve a benefit of doubt?

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    Newbie

    I assume you both are young since making out in a car is kind of juvenile. So he is probably a young guy thinking sex all day long. In that case, if you have been dating for a month and you were making out i dont think its weird his hand went to several places. He said sorry and told you it was kind of natural to him. I would believe him

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