Did he send me a text meant for another girl?


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    Nathalie

    So this guy and I matched only 8 days ago but went on a walking date pretty quickly, like only 2 days after having matched. We hit it off and there was obviously chemistry. He implied he wanted to see me again at the end when we were leaving. That same day he sent me a follow-up text to say he enjoyed our walk. Then the following days he sent me a text every single day asking how my day went or how I was, until Christmas day when I decided to wish him a Merry Christmas to show him I was also interested. That evening, he asked me how my evening went. I responded and asked him how his went. And here’s the weird part. He answered: “I’m about to leave in a few minutes. Are you still in *city* tonight?” That city being the town where he lives AND where I live. Knowing full well we live in the same city as we already had a date not far from both our homes. So I answered: “I live in *city* ;)”. After which he responded after an hour or so: “Are you still awake?”, to which I responded: “Yes” after 20 min. It was already half past 11 PM by then. Since then, I haven’t heard from him. He never responded and it’s been two days. I guess my question is: could it be that his question if I was still in town was meant for another girl and he’s feeling embarrassed now or am I just making a movie in my head? Is it up to me initiate again or is he obviously not interested in me? Thanks for your answers!

    #930244 Reply
    Raven

    I think you should let it be & keep meeting new guys…

    #930255 Reply
    Anon

    I read it as if he thought you were somewhere else for Christmas. I would not initiate and let him reignite the text conversation or make a plan to see you.

    #930257 Reply
    Liz Lemon

    I agree with both Raven and Anon. You’ve only had one date with this guy. He probably is talking to other women, which is fine- you should be talking to other men!

    Your first date was a week ago and he hasn’t followed up to arrange another date. Since it’s the holidays, that’s understandable, but you should sit back and let him initiate texting again and arrange another date. It may be that his texting was thrown off because of Christmas. If he’s interested, he’ll contact you. If he doesn’t get in touch, then write him off and move on- it was only one date. Don’t fret about it.

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    Zoya Bukatava

    Of course he is talking to other women, did you expect something different after one date? If I was you I would wait and see if he reaches out

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