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Dom
Hi beautiful ones.
I know that not all would agree with the astrological influence in our life, but I do, so my question is directed to those that feels the same. No ofense. Just being clear to not start debates.
Now, to the point. I’ve been friend for a while with this capricorn man. I think it is more of a platonic relationship. I feel he trust me a lot. He share with me his fears, dreams, desires, doubts, even show me his flaws and talk about them, without any emabarrasment, he also asks for my opinion and advice very often, and don’t talk about other women. He has being dating since our friendship started, and he sometimes has mentioned the fact, or his doubts and fears related to, but never even mention the woman’s name; he’s very punctual with the feelings he wants to share about it and end of that conversation; I could never hear again about the woman or the relationship again. He’s always wanting to help me to improve myself as well (or in general), he often offers his ears, listening to me carefully and remembering all I ever said (which surprise me often), and little by little I started to open myself too, ver deeply, as I never did with anyone (even with myself I believe). I’m a Virgo, so, it took me a while to realize that I was falling in love him, with all this intimacy and security, and admitted it. I’m afraid of the whole thing. You know, all the stories about falling for a friend, and the friendzone, etc. What I want from you is to hear stories of how you get in a relationship with your capricorn man. If someone knows how to win his heart, I’ll like to know to. I know that they are difficult to open and to get into a relationship. So, please, whatever help will be very appreciated. Please, help me get out of the friendzone with this man!
Thank’s in advance.
Hannah
Hmm well I’m not sure I believe in astrology, but I do know a bit about it as I find it an interesting subject.
If he’s your friend, an interesting exercise to try is to do his full chart and yours. All you need is his date of birth, place and time of birth.
I’m also a Virgo with a few male Capricorns in my life! It’s traditionally a good match for virgos but I find we are both quite reserved and that can lead to issues. When all is well, it’s no problem and we open up well with Capricorns. But when things are difficult, we cam both clam up and communication can be difficult.
I’m not actually sure how my Capricorn relationship started! We were friends for some time and there was an attraction there but we didn’t do anything about it because we were living too far apart. Sometimes we were just friends, sometimes FWB. I remember telling a friend that I liked him and she said I should pursue it but actually he did and asked me on a date! I’m not sure if I was being different and that’s why he asked me out or what. From really liking him to being in a relationship took 3 years, although mainly because I was away at university.
So, if your man is a typical capricorn, he’s probably quite cautious about getting into romantic relationships. I knew my guy liked me but he never actually said the words for years. He’ll be quite happy to have flings and sex, but getting to know someone on a deeper level is something else. I would focus on that if I were you. He will value the fact you are someone he can really talk to and be open with. I also found my capricorn was much more relaxed after a few drinks! That always got him opening up and becoming flirtatious so you could try taking him out to a bar?
Aside from astrology, if you don’t want to be friend-zoned, perhaps ask where you stand? Not in a big way that could ruin your friendship but just casually mention something like “have you ever thought about us dating” when he’s talking about dates. You don’t want to waste time hoping he feels more than he does and at the same time getting more attached.
Dom
Hi Hannah!
Yes, indeed, he’s very cautious. And he also seems to have a hard time to commit or to find a relationship. I think we are very open to each other already (talking about even childhood traumas, etc), but I’ll keep to deepen into knowing each other. I think that the point in here is to be very patient, right? I’m not sure about asking him what he thinks about us dating, I feel it would be strange… Or maybe I’m just afraid that he will close off and withdraw…
Thank’s for your answer!
Anne
I am a Capricorn and my Capricorn ex started as a friend. He observed me for two months (I never noticed him) before even talking to me. Then he started finding reasons (not plausible ones) to contact me and be around me. Reputation, stature and intelligence were important to him and he found ways of ascertaining each of those things about me from others before approaching me.
He was laid back but fun. Work and family life were of the utmost importance to him and he saw that I valued those as well.
I agree that they are cautious and take their time about things. If you have known him for a bit I would agree with Hannah that you find some way to unwrap his feelings because Caps might need to be prodded a bit or given a green light before they reveal their feelings for you.
Hannah
Well I was and wasn’t patient with my capricorn. Yes it took a long time for us to get together but I didn’t wait around for him. I kept on dating and having relationships during that time. I suggest you do the same and not focus solely on him.
Capricorns are an earth sign and they do like to go out and have fun, even if they sometimes don’t seem like they do! So take him out and show him a good time. Yes you want to be open with each other but also you want to light any potential sparks. Talking about serious stuff doesn’t always do that. So a mix of fun and openness is a good idea. A lot of capricorns go through life feeling quite lonely, so I’m sure he really values you, even if it’s not on a romantic level.
Dom
Oh yes, I keep dating other men as well. I do like to have fun too! And when we talk, even about serious stuff, we can’t just be serious, we laugh about those serious stuff…
I feel the same, that he somehow values me, and I would like to light that romantic sparks if isn’t there…
Kate
Hi Dom, I’m a Capricorn and so is my boyfriend! We were born 4 days apart — as we recently found out. We met online over 3 months ago, chatted randomly for 2 weeks before he invited me for a coffee. He didn’t purse me straightaway. One week after we met (met three times during the week but just as friends hanging out) I went overseas for 4 weeks and during that period of time he started a relationship with someone and told me about it. I was disappointed but was OK. When I returned however he ended that relationship and started going out with me. He later told me that he liked me on our first meeting but was a bit confused and didn’t want to scare me away…. Who knows if it’s true but it is true that we started as friends, just hanging out enjoying each other’s company, getting to know each other quite a bit before he told me that he fell for me. until then I was still OK with just being friends, although I was very attracted to him. Once he opened up he is so passionate. He told me he loves me which surprised me because when I was with my last boyfriend, he never ever said he loved me (8 months). I thought guys don’t say I love you so easily but my Capricorn man said it and he’s so genuine it just melt my heart.
He even said ,’ imagine we have a child, he or she would be so beautiful…’ I was equally surprised by that because I thought it’s normally woman who has such ideas first! But the way he said and the look in his eyes are just so sincere. I know he cares about me very much.
I have no idea why he fell for me. He’s 39 (we are the same age),very tall, good-looking, intelligent, a professional….I imagine he could easily pick any beautiful girl in town but why did he fall in love with me? If he didn’t said ‘I love you’ first, I would have been happy just to be his friend, not because I wasn’t attracted to him, but because I never thought of owning him, I was just really appreciate him as a wonderful individual…..
However it’s different now. I find myself sometimes feeling insecure if I don’t get texts from him for a day. He once said that he’s polyarmorous and we had a discussion around it. I said to me loyalty is vital important and if he falls in love with someone else I’d leave. He then said he will only loves me and it’s a promise….. But the fear of losing him has already crept in…. it’s not good if it grows……
So here’s my story of two capricorn people falling in love with each other….it’s not finished yet and I hope it never will as I love him soooo much!
Leigh
I do believe astrology plays are strong part with our actions.
I agree with Hannah that if you have his DOB, time and where he was born, go to http://www.astro.com and do his chart. It is free and it will give you his sun, rising and moon signs. Although his sun sign is Capricorn his rising sign is very important in his actions as well.
If you check out http://www.Astro.com, go to Free Horoscopes at the top, then Extended Chart and begin. I think you need to register though, which is free. ‘
I think Astrology is the coolest thing ever because it speaks about my signs accurately. And, I am also a Virgo. Met a Capricorn last year but it never went any further. I honestly think he was looking for sex only.
Dom
Thank you all!
Leigh, sadly, I don’t have his time birth, and don’t know how to get it without looking weird
beatriz
I’m going out with this Capricorn guy
Crisula
A man’s Moon and Venus sign are most important. Seriously, if your Sun, moon or ascendant is in neither one of those signs…he will not be interested for long.
Crisula
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Raven
Jesus was a Capricorn…
Hannah
He wasn’t great at relationships Raven. Never got married did he?
beatriz
I’m a Sagittarius gal going out with this Capricorn guy …we’ve no each other for the past three years.he was my customer .I sell food at my mom small restaurant .I always catch him starring at me when ever he comes to buy food and that makes me nervous when ever he comes by …buh he was shy ..soo shy then ..I fall in love with him just like that without been all that close to him .the look in his eyes propose to me without him saying a thing ..just normal customer care relationship betwn us .he waves at me or blow the horns of his car when he’s passing ..so it was like he was showing off his car ..he wanted me to know he had a car …so my Frn use to tell me ..gal the guy is interested in u ..I told them no he’s just a customer Frn …which I new inside me that he had interest in me .but he never asks me out.he was soo damn handsome.. So went to school for 2years came back …was there one night he came to buy food .he was soo happy when he saw me and was like where were you and have been asking of you ..blah bhal ..the next day he came and said he wants to marry me,I intentionally told him I’m married …he told me why cos did I marry cos he travelled and came back asking of me he wanted to marry me …but he never asked me out then ..he told me if I want him to go to inform my parents abt it he will do it to have me .and he wanted my contact which I denial him
beatriz
He has Venus in Aquarius ,moon in cancer ,asc in cancer or Capricorn .and I’m a sun in sagg ,asc in Taurus ,Venus in Scorpio
beatriz
There was a certern man who force me to give him my number that day cos that time I just got out of a relationship and decided not to enter into another that time ..the man saw him standing besides e when I was selling asking for my number so the man come and said I shldnt be mean to such a handsome gentle guy ..so I gave him my contact the man told him that’s how ladies are they try hard to get when you approach them all he has to do is sex me hard will fall for him and we started going out ..he invited me to his house ..he said he wanted to show me how much he loves me ..he did sex me hard and it was great …as I never told him I love him told him want us to be frns ..was playing hard to get … We started going out ..it been 8 Months now ..he use to call me three times a day during first two months said he wanted us to have a kid and wants us to marry ..he wants us to go and meet our parents I told him I’m not ready …he became soo distant and cold
beatriz
Sorry for short cut text ..continue
No text no call ..I was confuse then cos I never knew abt this astrology thing ,so I thought he used me for sex …how can a guy be dying just to be with me and now that he has got me he’s acting like this .. Ao i asked y he stopped calling as he use to and he said he s busy now a days cos he’s doing some course to upgrade himself i said OK and also he asks will I marry him and I said I dnt no cos I never want to rash things I hardly know his behavior so he said he want to date someone that will marry him that was why he CHG and so that made him CHG cos I was making him confuse so I agreed and said yes I want to marry him .and also assured me he isn’t cheating on me so I shd relex which I didn’t ask if he’s cheating …so he text and called two days and started going mia again ..I was still hagging in there feely very lonely .. December my birthday he forgot I remind him no gift for me ,Christmas I sent him wishes he responded ,his birthday 3rd January …l wished him ..he even forgot it was his birthday and was so greatful I remind him of that …no contact doesn’t make time for us to meet always busy .on the Valentine day which wished him he made no plans for us …i went to work ,in the evening saw him with his Facebook Frn gal ..driving home with this gal he did lied to me but I was suspecting him ..I HV trust issues .I broke up with him send a text to him the next day and broke up with him told him not to call cos i want to move on since he was calling and calling to explain ..but I didn’t give him the chance cos I was hurt and soo argry with myself and him for believing and fallen for his lies
Next month I became OK so I test him good morning wishes ..he responded back quickly and asked can he call me I said yes ..he asked if we can meet agreed he tod me it wasn’t him but I never bought that ..since then he CHG and became close again buty number one problem is are Capricorns stingy .cos he never bought me any gift and also I use to give him food when ever he comes around (restaurant) my problem is I’m confuse I dnt no if he loves me or using me for food .cos he always only ask if I love him when we making sex ..and he once said he loves me when we were having sex and appreciate what HV been doing for him ..for always giving him food no women will treat him like me and he won’t leave me for anyone ..is like he opens up emotional when we having sex but for the sex woow great he makes me scream cry WO wow I love it and he keeps saying he wants to get me pregnant everytime and a times he even release sprems in me to get pregnant but I take pills to prevent that cos he knees I want yo further my education whats confusing is he won’t call or text to no how I’m doing unless he is coming for food ..I did complain to him it makes me feel jes using me for food ..but he still kept on doing until recently he pull away this cap pulling away thin no text no call from ..gave him his space no call no text from me to for 1 week he came back asking why I never called came for food and went ..I dnt text him was soo angry this time ,u no sagg can be blunt in our speech became blunt and spoke my mind told him he not caring and uses me for ..he does not care if I’m died or alive all he care is his food .so I told him if that continues I be out from the relationship cos if I ask for broke up he always refuse ..he told me hes confuse …he faulty and he’s wounded I always get him wrong in our relationship..and asks what shd he do …cos he wants us to go beyond this and blah blah ..and he cares and thinks about me ..after that he called for the next two days but havnt come for food again and havnt call since yesterday I need help pls do you think he loves me and wants to marry me as he says cos I’m confusebeatriz
I also found out he had background check abt me from my aunt who he works in the same company with ..how I am ..am I a good gal ..abt my parents my aunt told me he did asks all that ..before he came and asked me to be his girlfriend…so pls I’m confuse do he love me or using me for food ..
Raven
Hannah = Hahahahahahahahaaa!!
He liked hookers, too…Raven
Beatriz = No babies until he gives you expensive wedding ring…
Beatriz
Pls do you think he loves me ..I’m confuse …atimes I feel like breaking up with him, move forward with my life cos he doesnt love me and makes me feel lonely Atimes too he makes me feel he loves me and going to be together forever…pls help cos, l don’t want to waste my time with him
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