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“Does He Love Me” Quiz – See how he really feels about you

The Beatles sang, “All You Need is Love” and it’s true, we do need love…if only it could be easier to find.

Love is a small word with a big meaning, a meaning that is a unique experience for everyone and can mean very different things from one person to the next. A man might say he loves a woman and not feel it…or he might feel it strongly but be unable to say it. Knowing how he feels is a lot more complicated than just hearing the words. Fortunately, how much he loves you is something that can be measured and quantified which is why we’ve created this quiz.

Take this super easy, super quick quiz to find out if this guy really loves you and wants to commit to you for life.

The quiz will ask you 9 questions about your relationship. As long as you answer honestly, you will get startlingly (even shockingly) accurate results and will know for sure whether he loves you or not.

Note: In order to receive your quiz results, we collect your email at the end of the quiz. Just wanted to give you a heads up so you know what to expect. :)

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Ian brown

Me i dont know if my girlfriend realy love me becase if i tell him to do something she is refusing now how can i know she love me

Reply September 19, 2022, 1:10 am


If he don’t talk to me..if we breaking up.then why..why he is still in my head.. in my breathin, why i feel happy when someone call his name. Why i still feel him.He is getting married with someone now.i swear i really don’t feel happy with someone.i don’t want anyone touch..so may times m trying to forget him but..i want to tell seriously my soul really really need himmy body feel painful without him .. what kind of this love so many times i had dreamt about him dont know what’s happening to me.i know no one can help me..not even god…he’s quite now!

Reply April 28, 2021, 3:25 am


Me & my boyfriend have been together for a while, i know he loves me, but lately things have been really bad. hes been going thru some things so he told me its better off if we take a break from one another, and that he is going to distance himself from everyone. I agreed to go on break, being concerned for his mental health and wanting him to get thru whatever hes going thru in a good manner. Ever since those words were spoken- we havent even been on break, we’ve been talking more than we were before. im starting to question our relationship because it has come up recently that he has been in other females dms, calling them “thick” or complimenting them. he has this one girl bestfriend that he used to have feelings for, which tells him we shouldnt be together. as a female, i can tell what another females intentions are, which im most definitely sure hers are to make him leave me for her. he claims they are just good friends, but actions speak WAY louder than words. we’ve been getting into many arguments recently about the subject of the stability of our relationship. it just hurts we were doing so good before this came about.

Reply April 19, 2021, 6:56 pm


I asked my bf what he feels about me he said I don’t know what does he mean

Reply April 16, 2021, 5:16 am


Can I get ur consult?

Reply January 12, 2021, 12:21 am


I am spending all my time with a guy I know from last 6-7 years, it’s a long distance relationship, we never met as we came close in last 4 years only..and are planning to meet now.
In the starting when I used to ask him for his pictures , he shared pic of any other man every time a new face but I said for video call once, that day I came to see the real him ..he says he doesn’t like to click and and ya he is bit conscious. He instead says for a video call now.
He also proposed to me 2 years back over call n messages and was very serious about it..
At that time I used to believe the other man’s pic is his. ..and he said he wants to marry me. Since , I never had a video call or met him and I wasn’t so serious about him, I casually used to avoid this topic.
But now after spending more time with him I have fallen in love with him and I asked him to meet and I told that I want him to be mine forever but he changed his mind now .and says he has some big things to do ..and is setting up a business so says can’t marry you.
Though he says he loves me and wants to get intimate with me..but he has cleared that he doesn’t wants to marry me or anyone.

Please advice me what should I do here …

Reply December 21, 2020, 4:17 am

Martha Denis

My boyfriend is away from me ad i really love him how can i know if he loves me back

Reply December 7, 2020, 1:44 pm

Boston Michelle

A man will show it, say it, text it , write it , call u on the phone. His actions and the attention he gives will let you no. If he wonders how you are daily ? Says goodnight & wonders were u r when u do not answer him.

Reply December 11, 2020, 7:47 am


A guy messaged me,in a day..he told that he like me very much and also proposed me…but,it’s only online…he sent some pics of him… when he proposed me ,then I asked to know him,that’s it..and he also asked my pics..( good ones..)as iam already committed..I didn’t accept his proposal.and rejected..he will message me some times…like one time ,he will start messaging me,it may be a mid day/night time…or he will call me one day,and no call for 1or 2 days,even a message…I feel that he forgoted me.and moving on..and again a call one day..and vice versa..and yesss…he will speak like,he is dreaming about his future with mee..and even said a day .to accept him..I am not knowing what to do??!; Please tell me some one!!!

Reply September 21, 2020, 6:34 am


If you have known him deeply… then give him another chance to court you… be courted first then youll know his intentions… dont fall for tricks easily… becuase as of what I see he might be playing… and since its in online its quite a dangerous place to start a reltionship but if you yourself likes him or is also commited to him… might as well reconsider him… but if its the other way around.. no nope dont waste time girl… your more precious than a diamond :3

Reply October 3, 2020, 9:44 am

Boston Michelle

Girl if he quickly asking you to marry h via snap chat , video chat, text or phone call. Please I bet he did not even have ring did he? Ring size did he no yours. Call me old fashion but even virtually I would not count it as 1. I would b creeped out he asked me so quickly. Asks myself how many other women is he asking? Extreme circumstances like my man is deployed and he asks me then ok that is a virtual proposal

Reply December 11, 2020, 7:51 am


I hav my b.f,
We have now dated for 2months. i do love him so much
He is such a caring, loving n everything
He was kind to me n told me he had a gal before me, n tld me that “i try understand him”
But i felt heart broken when he posted on facebook for her birthday.
What can i really do?

Reply September 9, 2020, 1:39 am


I’ve been through that problem… Dont keep this problem at heart… ask him, “why did you…” and let him explain… If he loves you he’ll understand the fact that he’s wrong… but as told “you cant change him if you want him to be him”… so if he does the same dont worry as long as he still runs to you… it just means he has moved on and is now onto you… dont let jealousy overcome you… be yourself and be unique as you are… fine this gal might be his ex… but your the new one… just understand that he might only take “that gal” as a friend and has his eyes only to you…
But if he got mad at you… then its your time to shine… let him catch you now..
I mean you must always let him have this feeling of “I’m Catching something” this will make him feel that your something that he doesnt have…
Be yourself… if you always initiate… then stop initiating then have a “you” time
Be confidently You… as you have your “you” time do things you love (give him 3 days if he doesn’t initiate anything… he might be waiting for you…) but if weeks have passed and he still doesn’t initiate… dude… why are you letting your heart fall for someone who comes back to his mistake… dont fall with him on the same hole… be you, love yourself before loving him…
I feel you, but jealousy wont do you any good… just accept it and tell… if he gets mad then do tell him your point why your jealous done overdo though do something like:
“Im jealous of this woman bla bla bla”
if he gets mad— “but I think you still like her” sad sad_ if his still mad then he might be covering something… and cant accept the fact that your jealous over something dont waste you time to him…
If he understands your disstress then good :3 thats all I can give hope it helped you

Reply October 3, 2020, 10:03 am

Abigail Campbell

I’ve been throught a lot of those and it hurts to see him post or talk about another girl or even flirt with them i no i am kind of going through it right now and he sys hes just making me jealouse but i feel like hes using me and he is just sayin he loves me just so i can stay with him until he finds someone else thats prettier or better than me

Reply January 11, 2023, 10:14 pm


I have a boyfriend for a year and half now..and I know that he loves me…he is caring and everything but it seems as if we dont connect on an emotional level as often…only sometimes we do and thats when he’s in the mood to be expressive…we misunderstand each other very often although we both have good intentions and thats due to miscommunication ..when this happens it really hurts me..especially when we argue over something really silly and he would go and lie down in a corner and not bother with me…it really hurts me and I’ve told him but he says that he’s just calming down and thats his way of preventing the arguement from escalating…however for me..I like to talk it out and he feels as if I’m arguing…he says that I ask too much questions but I don’t understand things unless I ask questions….I really try to undersyand how he does things and I wonder if he tries to understand me…we have a good relationship except the part where there is misinterpretation for silly things and understand each other…I get confused sometimes when I think about the future, like what if we separate and it doesn’t work out although I imagine in my head that we will get marry someday….he has told me that he wants to marry me and is currently going through a divorce with his ex-wife….we both were married before and got separated….and he accepts that and I accept him as well….but I just dont know if this will work…sometimes I over think everything and create confusions in my own head then expect him to deal with it and give me some reassurance that everything is OK when its crystal clear that he loves me but I refuse to believe it…

Reply August 31, 2020, 2:57 pm


I think you need to “not” over think things… Plus maybe if your fixing things with him… do you like shout or anything? if you do men usually take this as tone of “fight”… so when fixing things with him you must be calm and you can also not talk atleast like a space when this happens… most men usually step back on fights becuase they dont like the the feeling of verbally fighting… let him calm down and talk to you… if he doesnt talk back to you… then its his problem… girl dont waste your time… give him the “1 week” rule dont talk… its like the silent treatment but your there and your waiting for his response not leaving him in the air or something… just give him the space he needs… then let him talk to you..

Reply October 3, 2020, 10:13 am


Your questions for quiz always go back to first question after second one, never get to question 3.

Reply June 7, 2020, 8:36 pm

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Reply June 8, 2020, 12:22 pm


I’ve a BF from Iran and i live in india , he says he loves me but never text me very often although he proposed me .It’s me who texts first + he doesn’t really gets romantic rather horny what does it actually mean ? he is honest in everything but m little unsecured :(

Reply May 29, 2020, 2:23 pm


I think he do loves u but he has no time

Reply July 16, 2020, 5:36 pm


am surely in love with this! so amazing!!

Reply May 25, 2020, 11:05 am


My guy and I have been together for four years and we talk every day but when he’s with his godparents the problem I have you not being able to hear from him when he’s with them although he text me my question is how can I get through not hearing from him? for so many hours although I know where he is.

Reply February 19, 2020, 3:40 pm


Maybe his friends (not godparents) takes all his time. He can call you IF HE REALLY WANTED TO. ❤️

Reply May 2, 2020, 9:53 pm


Give a guy some space, he’ll appreciate it and love you even more :)

Reply June 13, 2020, 6:07 pm


Last year I make a relationship with my friend. I love him very much but he break it because a third party. But after one month we met again in a private class. Sometimes he looks at me. One day he unblock me from instagram and send messages. He create a new Instagram account for message with me(because his girlfriend is also using his account) now we are friends. We always message in WhatsApp. He ask me am I love him and what’s the reason I say from my heart I love him. He don’t say clear answer to me. He sometimes reply me and sometimes come online and don’t look my messages. But he reply for my every messages. Sometimes he update whatsapp states about love( like she propose me) what am I do now. Is he love with me?? Please help me. I really love him

Reply February 9, 2020, 9:39 am


It’s time to move on and to find someone that truly loves and appreciates you.

Reply June 13, 2020, 6:11 pm


We are together for 12 years and he is not the romantic kind. He tells me everything that happens in the day, and is always worried. But yes, he does love me, and I know It…

Reply February 2, 2020, 1:36 pm


Playing you.

Reply May 2, 2020, 9:54 pm


You should be the one to lead him in to the right direction, dress up, be romantic, make him dinner and once you have his attention, express your feelings to him.

Reply June 13, 2020, 6:13 pm


He doesn’t tell me he loves me. He doesn’t prioritise me but his babymama is. He spends a lot of his free time with his child and babymama but then he would tell me his never getting back with her. He doesn’t protect me from his mischiefs,he cheated,but when his around he seems happy and make promises like having children and raising them together. We used to have a lot of dreams but now all he thinks about is making sure babymama doesn’t know about me “because she’ll deny him a chance to see his son”

Reply October 6, 2019, 4:28 pm


@ Tholoana:
I hope you’ve at least realize the truth by now and you’ve moved on. I’s so plain to see about your boyfriend and his baby’s mom… Ray Charles could see it…if he was still alive.

Reply May 2, 2020, 9:40 pm


We’ve been dating and living together for 6 1/2yrs. Is he ever going to propose? We’ve talked about it in the past and naturally he’s uncomfortable. I think because he never has a plan or commitment to anything except work. That’s his life, that’s all he talks about, that’s all he seems to know. I have to at times deter that conversation because I don’t “always” want to talk about work. He just seems to “float” for the most part in life. He’s content and very comfortable. For some reason he’s obsessed with the size of the stone he must get me. Saying it’s in the works (3yrs later). My mom, friends, family and myself have all voiced the size doesn’t matter. However, he tends to get caught up in what “others” will think. It’s not about that, I’ve expressed, it’s about “Us.”

Reply September 6, 2019, 7:28 am


Make changes in your life like dress up, go out and pretend as if you’re slowly drifting away, once you have his attention and you find him running after you and wondering what’s gotten in to you, explain to him that you feel the need to be wanted by someone who is man enough to put a ring on it ;)

Reply June 13, 2020, 6:18 pm


I have a bf he is living in usa and i am living in philipines. that so far for us and hard being lOng distance relationship. sometimes i dont feel if he really love me

Reply August 26, 2019, 12:24 pm


Same problem dear..my boyfriend lives in Philippines and I live in India. We never saw each other personally or even in a pic. I don’t know if he really loves me or not : ( He is always good to me but sometimes the distance between us affects me hard.

Reply March 11, 2020, 11:09 am


Unless you guys have a very serious connection and you visit each other often AND you’re seriously making plans to marry which would mean arrangements for living PERMANENTLY TOGETHER…the female will end up hurt. If it’s from online dating you’ve met with the promise to meet and it’s not happened I’d say after 1-3 months..let it go. A guy who’s really interested in you will seriously MOVE MOUNTAINS TO SEE YOU. Well wishes!❤️

Reply May 2, 2020, 9:47 pm


I do love my boyfriend but do I know if he truly loves me back??

Reply July 1, 2019, 11:55 pm


Do you?

Reply June 13, 2020, 6:19 pm


Me and my Boyfriend are both Seniors in college but are colleges are pretty far away so we can only see eachother like 1 or 2 times a month. We met at a fair and we spent the whole night together and then he drove me home. Since then we have been talking everyday for hours but the past few weeks he’s been avoiding my text and calls and taking longer to respond or just not responding and idk what to do. He says he loves me but I’m not so sure anymore I guess what I’m wondering is… Is he still intrested or should I just break up

Reply January 2, 2019, 1:20 am


Sweetness it’s a year and a half later…are you still with him? If so I hope it’s because he proved faithful.❤️

Reply May 2, 2020, 9:50 pm


He called to say we should broke up but I love him , a month letter I saw him with his ex girlfriend going in and out but I love him

Reply October 22, 2018, 3:07 am


It’s time to move on.

Reply June 13, 2020, 6:20 pm


I really love him but I don’t know if he do

Reply July 23, 2018, 8:34 am


i was is in love with someone special for the past 9 years. i haven’t told you about it. Bcoz i’m not sure whether i have a crush or love on you. but now i know it’s too late at a stage of loosing you, i can see my feelings on you. i loved u, and still loving you. every morning i wake up and the very next thing which comes my mind is you.every day i think about you all night and sleep.i don’t know why am i thinking about you too much.i had a lot of memories about you.i am completely fallen for you.but you don’t know my feelings.you were completely unaware of it and sleeping peacefully all night. i know it very well. i know that you will never be mine. but atleast i want to recover from this memories of you. i need a break. i need to freshen my mind and recover from all the thoughts.

Reply April 4, 2018, 3:46 pm

Judith Chepkoech

we have stay for 2 years, he married me with a kid, at f
irst he was doing anything I ask him to do he was doing everything for my son but nowadays he doesn’t even pay schools fees, does he still love me?

Reply March 11, 2018, 4:34 pm


Address the issue with him and find out what’s going on in his mind

Reply June 13, 2020, 6:21 pm


I am not sure iv he loves mi,we re stayin together.last month he sent mi back home..when I get there he kept calling mi nd leaving sms.he asked mi to come back when I get here I heard he was bringing another woman to our room…i wonder iv he still loves mi

Reply March 6, 2018, 4:07 am


I love him a lot… But i don’t know he loves me or not.

Reply February 22, 2018, 8:15 am


My boyfriend not calling anymore!what can I do?

Reply January 31, 2018, 3:24 am


I think the love test is ookay but some people need to learn about love who they should fill in love with and if that person does not accept her love then she shouldn’t be with that pperson and that how love should come though out life

Reply December 25, 2017, 2:49 pm


It hardly happens

Reply August 18, 2017, 6:46 pm


I love him we talk to each other daily but now he is not talking with me not even replying to my text being online also

Reply August 14, 2017, 12:26 am


I love him & he says he loves me back but I don’t trust him & he is not open about everything to me……what makes me worry he want to marry me

Reply July 1, 2017, 4:15 pm


hi im Laurian me nd my ex broke up in 2015 nd were saperated for about 5 months then we starting to see each other agen sortly after on a regular bases nw. we are still intimate nd keep contact.

sometimes he would use puppy names lyk darling nd angle whn we chat nd the last tym he made a comment saying that he still needs to fetch my ” mother inlaw” his mom at the airport. what does that mean is there a chance to repair our relationship? and start afresh

Reply June 2, 2017, 8:30 am


Okay so idk if he loves me or not bc my boyfriend and i go to different schools and rarely see each other and he will be going to high school and im going to stay in middle school because he is one year older than me so idk if he wont be cheating on me and also my exs who hate me go to the same school he goes to and they used to be friends so idkkk im so confuseddd

Reply April 30, 2017, 10:39 pm


I am dating a married man at first he hid for me that he is married ,then after sometime i found out,he say since u know i am married lets carry on with our affair

Reply March 27, 2017, 7:34 pm


Pls,i need your advise,this particular guy says he likes me which i ignored him,because I have a boyfriend then.I started liking the guy,i told my friend to tell him to call me, we started communicating on phone ,from there i went to visit him in his house,we had a great sex,We both enjoyed it.He invited me again to his house which i went for the second time, he poured out his heart to me,gave me some advises,tell me things to do and say has a woman,he later told me he has a girlfriend, says but the day he saw me he likes me and can’t let go of me,that night he cooked for me and promised not to have sex with me that night which he did,he now told me that i shouldn’t leave him because he has a girlfriend that is not the person one has met for the longtime that is the matter of who came and never left.He dosent call me often.

Reply March 5, 2017, 9:54 am

LIya Alex

am not sure he loves me or not

Reply January 24, 2017, 2:36 am


He said he loves me and want to marry but how is it possible he does not even see me .. he text me daily but I do not understand …. I want to know how is it possible

Reply January 21, 2017, 11:58 am


I like it

Reply January 18, 2017, 2:33 pm

Kayla Akers

Ok so the thing is that I am dating someone and I only she him on Thursdays and when I asked him out she said sure why not. So on the 10 of this month it will be 2 months of dating. And he doesn’t like things that I do like. But I also like someone else. And he goes to my school. And I see him every day. What should I do???

Reply January 5, 2017, 10:04 am


He told me he was going to leave without trace. Before leaving he told me how much he loved me. Thought he was joking but its been two years now. Did he really loved me?

Reply January 3, 2017, 1:54 pm


How to deal with being away from the one you love????????????

Reply December 21, 2016, 11:34 pm


Some of them………………………….

Reply December 21, 2016, 11:32 pm


I really love him I want to know “he loves me or not “???

Reply December 11, 2016, 2:37 pm


does he really love me at all?

Reply December 8, 2016, 5:14 am


He say he do things for me&he tell me, that he love me-but things that he do for ma own good,by far away ,but i dont wanna let him go…

Reply November 12, 2016, 3:33 am


Please I have a guy, he doesn’t call me often but I do the calling regulary and at times he doesn’t reply my text, but we do enough charting each time I call or text him to come online. Is a long distance relationship. Yet his claiming to love me. Please how true is he?

Reply October 29, 2016, 7:26 am


he’s not intresting bt if u do call him he will talk you…

Reply January 2, 2017, 2:37 pm


my dear, to be sincere he doesn’t love you. Because no matter how busy a guy is he’ll always make out time for you. He’s only chatting with you because he doesn’t want you to feel bad. Remember a relationship is an agreement of two persons not one. And it’s seems like you are the one in a relationship not him.

Reply April 18, 2017, 7:27 pm


I think he is not love me eather I think I can be special for him but sometime I heart when I know he just doing time pass with Me I felt how can I get he is true or false please help

Reply October 23, 2016, 2:30 pm


She is always quite on phone,she can’t call me back, text me but she likes to pay me avist and when we are together she shows me that she loves me. Is it true she loves me?

Reply October 5, 2016, 4:13 pm


she could just have a hard time talking on the phone just because she doesnt talk much over the phone doesnt me she doesnt have feelings for u

Reply April 16, 2017, 3:08 pm


she loves you, but her love needs to be harnessed and how to do that is by valuing yourself. No too much calls or text

Reply April 18, 2017, 7:17 pm


Does he think of me even abit????

Reply October 1, 2016, 2:36 pm


Yaay!! Accurate results! He loves me!
OMG can’t believe it!!

Reply September 7, 2016, 2:07 pm


he says that, he loves me but calls me every other day. is he lying to me? it makes me made. i feel like he does not love me!

Reply September 5, 2016, 1:25 pm


it makes me mad!

Reply September 5, 2016, 1:23 pm


he says that, he loves me but calls me every other day. is he lying to me? it make made. i feel like he does not love me!

Reply September 5, 2016, 1:21 pm


thanks for your help

Reply August 28, 2016, 5:30 pm


my guy dump me because i said i dont trust him its not like that ok i would never cheat on him i swear but he thinks so and now i hate my self . and now he says he cares for me does he still like me :(

Reply July 1, 2016, 6:52 pm


I want to no why he love me

Reply April 17, 2016, 12:09 am


I think this stuff is AWESOME

Reply February 26, 2016, 2:23 pm

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