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Sophia.
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Mimi
When we first started talking 2 months ago he would text me back every hour or two. Later it got less and less, but not to the point that he would wait a whole day to text me at 12 or even 2 am! His texts lately are in a fashion such as oh I’m busy at work I have a deadline. Before he would always answer my texts and leave a line for me to continue such as how was your day, etc. Now he only replies to my texts and nothing about himself.
Here are my questions:
1. Did he lose interest or is he really busy?
2. I saw him online on the dating website (that’s where we met). I was confused as how could a person not have anough time to shoot a text?
3. His responses are one short sentence and with and exclamation mark! What would that mean?
4. We had three dates and the last one being 3 weeks ago. What are the odds for the 4th one?
5. I sent him a text last night to make him jealous and said that I went out to a party and met an ex there. Still no reaction from him. He just asked about who the guy was.Amy
Leave him alone he is not interested…he’s basically ghosting you but polite enough to respond to your texts and waiting for you to take the hint…sorry to be so brutally honest but that’s how it goes on these dating apps. It’s happened to me like 100x (and my friends). And we are all good looking, with good jobs etc. Start talking to more guys and forget about him! He’s talking to multiple women most likely. F him.
Better off single
Grow up lol.
Of course he’s busy! Working at pursuing other options.
He’s not that interested.
Raven
You tried to make a guy jealous who clearly isn’t interested?!
Tallspicy
Yikes. There will be no forth date. Why are you texting a man first who is not escalating things and driving your relationship forward. You only initiate with a man to reward good behavior.
You need to not care what someone who is not your boyfriend is doing. Some come, some go, the right ones stay. And please get enough self worth to not try to chase a man who is not chasing you. And never again use jealousy as anything. Deeeeeeeply unhealthy mindset and behavior. This is why you let him lead. You would have known 3 weeks ago he was not interested.
Sophia
If your last date was three weeks ago I don’t think there will be a fourth. Sorry. But that’s what dating is all about. Figuring out if you are compatible enough and interested enough to continue. Keep looking and dating new guys. Have fun!
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