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elisa
I met a guy and it was very intense very fast, not the sexual part but the bonding part. ever since the first date we ended up spending a total of 10/16 days together all the time, even did a weekend trip. He is extremely anxious because of work situations, and since last Wednesday I’ve sensed him more distant. He went to a wedding form Thursday to Sunday and didn’t text. I decided to act friendly and texted him Sunday night, he replied friendly as always but not asking much about my life. The last time we texted was yesterday at 5 pm and he hasn’t replied, it doesn’t feel normal for the type of texting/phone calls/activity we were having. I honestly don’t know if he will reply… and if he does I don’t know if I should continue the conversation or reply if he doesn’t ask anything. It seemed like we had a real connection, but I’ve got a gut sense here… I’m not good at handling straightforward confrontation, but don’t know if I risk more by not even asking him or talking about it.
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This is the guy you had slumber parties with and didnt make a move on you right? I think you have your answer already especially if he now seems distant. There is something off about this guy. And if i were you i would really be more wary about spending so much time with a guy you dont kmow yet. It gets you hooked when he says nice things and opens up about mean exes etc. And difficult to unhook like you are experiencing now
Khadija
The last time we texted was yesterday at 5 pm and he hasn’t replied, it doesn’t feel normal for the type of texting/phone calls/activity we were having.
Two things here:
1. Its hasn’t been been a whole day yet, take a deep breath.
2. No one can keep up the level of communication you want. Eventually this settle into a steady but, lessened pace.He could be fading off because things moved so quickly. Perhaps assessing if he wants to continue on. In any case its too soon to tell.
Go about your day and if reaches out don;t jump down his throat. I didn’t see that you two are official so when he does reach out maybe its time to get a clear picture as to what he wants from dating. This conversation isn’t confrontation just information for you to know where his head is at.
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