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Susan.
Susan
A couple of nights a week my boyfriend stays over my place.
We’ve been together 2 years and things are going fairly well.
While in bed I decided to read for a few minutes. During the evening he had a few drinks.
As I’m reading he starts feeling me up and even begins to take his clothes off.
I put the book down and he is ready to have sex right then and there but, I wasn’t in the mood just yet.
As I tried to get into the mood he just seemed to want to rush things and eventually gave up and went to bed.
He turned his back to me all night and this morning I could tell he was in a bad mood about last night.
I’m not sure how to handle this situation. I’m really bothered that he was in a mood about not having sex. Any advice?
Hailey
He’s selfish because you wouldn’t do it when he wanted. Big baby. Sounds like he just wanted to get off anyway.
Sounds like the communication between you is poor. You two dont appear to connect.
Perhaps its time to introduce Kama Sutra.
Susan
Our communication hasn’t always been the best. Its a work in progress.
For me setting a mood makes all the difference. And I agree he’s acting like a baby.
People have off nights sometimes.
Dangerouse
If you want to stay a couple, get yourself in the mood. He needs that release.
kaye
Sometimes it’s fun for your guy to surprise you and show how much he wants you. Other times you’re not in the mood. Explain to him sometimes when he’s had a few drinks he gets a little too amorous and you need some time to get aroused. Tell him it’s not a light switch you can turn on and off. And if he rushes you too much it will be like going down a water slide…with no water!!!
Susan
Thanks Kaye, I’ll explain it to him in those words.
Raven
FYI: You do not owe him release!
That’s what his hand is for…
Susan
Thanks Raven. I thought that comment fed into the belief that I owe him something.
I’ve rarely not been in the mood for sex.
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