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Sam
I am really close with my mom but have been wedding planning recently and my mom has been pressuring me about things related to the wedding. I bought a dress I didn’t love because it is something my mom loved. I feel awful about it and I told my mom in a kind way that I felt pressured and she got mad at me and the conversation didn’t end well. Should I keep this from my fiancé? I want to talk to someone about it but I don’t want to hurt their relationship. What do I do?
Raven
You should hash it out with your Mom…
How did your earlier conversation not end well?Sarah
Well I had told her that I felt pressured by the sales lady and her and she wanted me to apologize for that. I really did feel that way but she thinks that I was just putting pressure on myself and should apologize to her for saying that. I’m not sure exactly what I did wrong if that is how I felt.
AngieBaby
Are you Sam or Sarah – why switch names on the same post? The site admin prefers it if we use one screen name here and stick to that. People who make fake posts use different names or use different names to ask the same questions repeatedly, and this community doesn’t like that because it wastes everyone’s time.
ANM StaffKeymasterAngieBaby’s correct! We’ve had some “mischief” in the past with that kind of thing, so if something seems awry with names, it tends to put us on the defensive. But that said, I think this might’ve been an honest “oops!”. I don’t think there are ill intentions on the part of the OP. :) Carry on, hopefully folks can offer more insight to our visitor’s questions.
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Maddie
Why do you feel nervous talking to your fiance about this? He is responsible for building his own relationship with your mother, and it is separate from his relationship with you. Being supportive of you and talking it through with you shouldn’t have much impact on any of that unless he sees this type of behavior towards you often and already doesn’t appreciate how she treats you?
Tammy
My view differs here. You need to talk this over with your mom and sort it out. I wldnt discuss this with my fiance cause going ahead there is a possibility that his relatnship with you mom may get colored due to this. Similarly small personal problems between you and ur husband shld be solved btwn you and ur husband widout discussing with your mom..
Unless there are some major issues going on, i feel its best to discuss and resolve it with the concernd person .
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