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How do you know if a guy is really pulling away/going cold or if it is your anxiety? I asked him once and he gave me a confusing answer but let it go. Recent days the communication has dwindled, doesn’t ask me about my day or anything really. Just nonsense texts, no calls in a week. I want to act normal and not keep asking him if anything is up if it’s just me being overly anxious. My normal thing would be to ask him a question or something but I feel like I should hold back and see if he reaches out to me when he’s ready. I understand he’s working and can’t be texting me but sitting in this discomfort wondering where I stand is killing me. But sending a text and getting a one word answer or being left on read would hurt more I think. How do I sit back and just let him go?
How long have you known this guy?
Confusing answers aren’t good…
Ask yourself: do you want a partner who turns towards you or one who pushes you away in times of stress? If the way he handles problems and resolves conflict makes you anxious, you’re probably not very compatible. Think about this from the perspective of what YOU need not what you should do to keep him interested, since you shouldn’t have to convince someone to stick around or to communicate with you. As Raven said, confusing answers aren’t good. Don’t make excuses for him.
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