Ghost venting

I met a man in July on Bumble. We talked for a couple weeks. We then met for a date that went really well. He is military & was gone for 3 weeks after that seeing his kids. He stayed in full contact whole time & was very open about his divorce 2 years ago/ relationship with children. He called himself an “open book” and truly was. He comes back, and we spent the last couple months seeing each other every weekend, working around his training schedule. We have open discussions on where things are going, never pressured him into it. 2 weekends ago we have a perfect long weekend together. HE initiates asking to meet my son & start coming to stay in my new home sometimes. We make detailed plans to take a trip this weekend. I take this as a great sign of intent & interest. He goes to a rough training for a few days the following week, so I give him space to destress but it feels off. By Thursday, I ask if he’s still an open book, yes I am he replies, so I calmly tell him I’m confused that he asked about something so important as meeting my son but now acts like maybe we should slow down and that I just want to be on the same page. No reply. I text the following day to basically call him out for acting this way. No reply, which I expected. He had deleted his bumble profile without me asking or even knowing early on. But I guess that Hinge one that I just found out about has been going on the whole time.

Not really looking for advice or anything bc it’s obvious. Just needed to vent bc it really messed my head up by him asking to bring my son into it… Only to be such a pussy he completely dropped me days later. I hate people 😑