During a one night stand, the guy didn’t want to have sex with me am I that bad?

Hi everyone

Few days ago, I matched with a guy on tinder. It makes 1 year that I didn’t have sex so I was horny. We talked a lot everyday and we sexted. I have never done that before but it was fun. We planned a night to see each other and he promessed me an amazing night.

When he arrived in my place, we talked a lot about work (were both really intellectual). After, we kissed and we did foreplay. He said “i just want pleasuring you -you deserve it” and he didn’t want me to touch him. He fingered me and he made me a cunni. He then came on my stomach in only 5 minutes.
He went in the bathroom and dressed up immediately. He didn’t want to have sex. I asked him if he was ok he said “it was so intense, I am going to get mad. I need to calm down. I want to do the things slowly step by step” after he added “it is just that I talk to a girl and maybe we’re gonna date again” (I could feel that he was lying because he was tripping over his words.). He stayed in my flat and we talked for 1-2 hours. He didn’t want to drink.

When he left my place, he told me to “keep the candoms for a next time”, he sent me a message and said “thanks, let’s have a run tomorrow together after we’ll go in your place”. He said “you’re so exciting”

The next day I sent him a message to say that I can’t wait to see him. He answered 4 hours after and he said that he is not available and he wishes me all the best. He then deleted me from Instagram.

I am confused and I feel that maybe I didn’t perform well. However, when I think about it, he didn’t want me to touch him neither and he was controlling. A friend told me that he acted like that because I was bad in bed. I thought that it was the contrary because he was too excited.

What is your opinion?