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Amy
My ex and i broke up end of September, He had a few family issues and i was struggling with lockdown, we were long distance he was struggling with decisions he needed to make and was pushing me away , so i broke up with him as i was 6 weeks into lockdown also struggling with working and home schooling my 2 kids
So i did no contact for 3 weeks , then he rang me drunk telling me how much he missed me etc etc i managed to meet up with him once at the end of October and stayed the night , the next day i noticed tinder on his phone and i asked him what i was doing there if hes already moving on , yes i no i over reacted, anyway i left and come home then text him and said sorry for over reacting and yes we can be friends
He messages every now and then asking after me and the kids etc etc likes all my Facebook post of the kids ( bearing in mind they are my kids ) and me , he even text me telling me i looked smashing in a photo
And text and asked to visit while he was in town and i said yes for sure
Problem is im holding onto hope that he misses me and wants me back , he is 38 im 37 and we were together 9 months had planned a future together i feel like we never got a real go of things
Is meeting up gonna hurt more than it already does or is there hope ?Maddie
If someone wants to get back together and can truly follow up on it, they tell you directly. They don’t only admit feelings when drunk. They don’t try to see you to sleep with you while also meeting new dates on tinder. He’s given you no indication he’s ready for anything real. Has he even resolved his family issues? Would anything actually be different? So while it hurts to hear, I think you’re reading too much into things with him and holding yourself back. A man in his late 30s should have himself together and act like an adult, not leave you confused. If he can’t do that, be careful of wasting your valuable time on him. You want someone respectful, who turns to you instead of away from you when dealing with his problems, and probably who has a plan to end the distance part of the equation if it’s still long distance. He doesn’t sound like the guy who will do any of that.
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