Defriend a Ghost?

just defriend him!

I meant deleted you first

Why is this even a question is my question.

You know what feeds his ego?

You not moving on. I would go ahead and unfriend him asap and forget about him.

Who cares what he feels or thinks?

Yes you should defriend him. If you can’t help but to look at his posts to see why he ghosted on you and you feel like it is hindering your ability to move on then definitely defriend him now. You have better things to do with your time to worry about this guy!

I dont add any guy Im dating to FB. He is not my friend. Once he has earned it, we can see if I will add him.
I have had guys ask me why I dont add them. I say because my friends and family on FB are my private world and I need to know you well enough to introduce you to my people.

Ridiculous, these days, go on one date and you have guys trying to add you on Linkedin and FB.

Interesting Andrea. One of the guys who I told I would not accept his friend request on FB again invited me to connect with him on LinkedIn. I thought that was bizarre! So immature this guy. No longer attracted to him. But he reached out to me via FB after commenting on his sister’s post. He tries to start things up. Blah! It’s so sad! Very damaged by his ex wife. It’s terrible. Thus is what we have to deal with!

Unfriend him. Who cares what he thinks? Do what feels right for you. After my ex fiancee vanished on me during my miscarriage in the hospital and it was him that felt vindicative later when he noticed I was on a dating site, he started putting up pix of him and his formerly ex and reconnected girlfriend on my wall. He did this five times in a row. I about died. You can imagine how that felt and I was only dating to try to rebound (bad decision but nevermind). I unfriended him right away and deleted him completely. I felt much better after that. In my opinion everyone hurt by a guy should do this because here we often hear girls telling us about checking out their profiles and how it hurts, what is this good for to torture ourselves?

I really think women on this site should stop telling each other that a man you are dating doesn’t owe you so much as a word to you should he decide he’s not into you. He does or he’s a rude jerk. Can we stop saying to each other this is ok unless your officially his girlfriend? Because it’s not ok… that’s number one.
Number two, just defriend this rude jerk.

My ghost blocked me a few days ago.

IOW it looks like she didn’t even notice she’d been defriended until about eight weeks after the fact!

Which is as good a reason I can think of for defriending. Not that she apparently went into a “rage” and blocked me, but the fact that she couldn’t be bothered to check my page or follow me, never mind ghosting on DMs. I really didn’t see this coming. If you defriend somebody who’s been ghosting you, why do they care?

Pretty interesting post…. so I did the opposite, I stopped texting to a girl that I liked, because she started dating someone else, and wanna be respectful, we used to text each other a lot and suddenly she disappeared, she didn’t text for a month and whenever I sent her a meme on IG, she would just see it and not say a thing, I got the message, didn’t even lift a finger to find out what’s going on… out of the blue, one afternoon, she texted me something stupid, I didn’t answer it, and forgot to do it… then she started sending people why I was being mean to her, I just kinda changed the subject because it’s none of other people’s bussiness what I think of her, and all of the sudden, she blocked me on Instagram and unfriended me on Facebook and then whenever she’ll see me, she would look at me angry and will give me an attitude… did her blocking me and unfriending me give me an ego boost, it did… so don’t block anyone, only unfollow, you will remain on their orbit but you will not see any posts… PS: People say she is in her right to be angry at me for ghosting her, well, I’m not anyone’s napkin that you will use to cry on while your boyfriend is having the fun, I could be discovering the cure for cancer or something like that you know, instead of listening to you bull… hope this helped

Ther is an unfollow button for wimps who can’t just bring the,selves to hit a delete button. So immature.

I think if you break up or have a person ghost, obviously they know you are either mad or being mature and moving on. I get no reason except if you are s old how you would feel gratification someone blocked you. So childish. It’s emabrrasing how so many adults act with social media.

You can be indifferent and delete someone. If you want to read into this some whacked out idea that it means something, more power to you. But it’s the mind set of an adolescent not an adult who takes charge and as raven says, throws away the trash.