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June 29, 2020 at 11:24 pm #795007
Views pls, last weekend i broke up with my bf bec he said we have different views in life. That he feels i want more which he’s worried he might not be able to give. And that he doesn’t want to be feeling confined in a relationship. So to me it felt that he wasnt sure about me so i broke up with him…
Now i received a msg from him asking how am i doing and he just wanted to say sorry
So i asked what is he sorry for? That he is right …i want commitment and everything a relationship entails and that i want him to be happy and dont want him to feel confined but i cant be with someone who’se unsure of me
His reply was “Yes you do deserve all you want blah blah” and he’s not unsure, He just think we look at life a little different, nothing wrong
I didnt reply anymore coz im not sure what he wants..is he just making sure im alright after the break up or what… but for me, just leave me alone if u cant give me what i want..so i can start to heal.. idk..June 30, 2020 at 4:12 am #795011
He wants exactly what he said, to say he was sorry, but he can’t give you what you want. If you really want to start healing, I suggest you block him everywhere and go no contact. It’s difficult to block at first but it’s the best way to go about healing. Wishing you the best.June 30, 2020 at 4:57 am #795012
thanks for the reply @Tinkerbella. Yeah, he was just probably sorry about our break-up. I was just confused because he was still calling me sweet stuff like..just like to say sorry honey and with all that heart emoji bs! So weird!June 30, 2020 at 5:25 am #795013
You’re very welcome❤️ I agree with you, he is sorry and yes, I’d be confused too if I was still being called honey and getting heart emojis. I am sure he’s already missing you. This is where the blocking and no contact really helps you in letting go and healing.June 30, 2020 at 6:38 am #795015
He may not be entirely sure he wants to be with you. So give him space so he knows what life without you means. I think you handled this so good, although its hard to walk away. You read him right and acted on it. When it comes to you, stick with what you told him: you deserve someone all in. Take careJune 30, 2020 at 1:22 pm #795033
I totally agree with Newbie. Try to put your focus only on what you deserve. Don’t reflect on what could have been. Let go and let life happen
Fast forward you will be saying.. “wow, glad I respected and took care of myself”. Good things (what you want) are in store for you. :)June 30, 2020 at 6:57 pm #795058
Thanks newbie and sensie!
Sucks as my heart still hopes But that’s how it is, will muscle exercise! :(