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Home › Forums › Dating and Sex Advice › Boyfriend asked me to live with him?
My bf we’ve been going out for few months and one night we were out he asked me to move in with him. At first I said yes, then I thought about it again and told him to wait more. He suggested we try it for a week and see how it goes. In the end I stayed at his place the whole weekend, we had fun cooked together and met his best friends for the first time. I went back to my place but he hasn’t brought it up again. I asked him if he still wanted us to live together and he said to let it chill and see how it goes. To me it’s clear that he changed his mind. I told him there’s a possibility to move abroad for work soon. He tried to convince me to stay longer. We discussed it a bit and he got frustrated so i dropped the subject entirely and we haven t talked about any of these things again.
How old are you both? You’ve only been dating a few months! That’s way too soon to consider moving in together. Staying with someone for a week or a weekend is NOT the same as living together. You need to get to know each other slowly, over time.
It’s definitely good (and necessary) to spend extended periods of time together before making a decision to move in together. So spending weeks/weekends at his place is great. But you need to do it multiple times, *over time*.
If you have an opportunity to work abroad, I would think very carefully before turning it down to stay in a relationship that’s only a few months old….
What Liz Lemon said 100 percent
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