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Chelsea
I have been with my partner 3 years.. last week on my friend suggestions a girl came up that he is friends with I looked at her profile and every PIC and status was slutty and she had everything on show and he had liked her profile PIC with her boobs out she is half his age. I questioned him about it and told him I felt uncomfortable of him liking that when he had a girlfriend. He started getting defensive telling me I chat to men at work and I’m a flirt (which I’m not) and turned everything on me then unfriended me. He got so angry swearing and hanging up the phone We argued about this for days and then he deactivated his profile and when I next looked for hers her profile has gone too its so weird I told him its a coincidence that they both came of same time but he swore he doesn’t talk to her so he don’t know why she’s come off. Now he’s back on there and he’s hidden his friends list and I’m still un-friended I can’t trust him. I’ve had issues with him in the past with woman and he’s never gained my trust back and its just every little thing now I question. Have I overreacted about this..ladies how would you feel if your man did that?
Raven
Why are you still with him, if you don’t trust him?
Maddie
Hasn’t been trustworthy in the past, lack of respect, bad communicator (unable to have a mature conversation with you or problem-solve issues), and immature. Him liking a random sexy social media photo is the least of your problems… do you want to be with a man who makes your life better or worse?
Ewa
why are you with him?
tammy
so many issues. u need to think whether this relationship is working?
Lane
Honestly, you are both addicted to drama-. I truly hope, for your sake he ‘stays gone’ so you can reflect on how poorly BOTH of you communicate, lack trust , and believe a toxic relationship will suddenly become a happy one…if only HE would change. You’re the one who needs to change, he’s proven to be who he is, its you who has to figure out who you are…someone who clings to a cheating man or a woman who say’s “I deserve better” and does a better job at choosing a better man.
Erin
Honestly just let him go, he’s more trouble than he’s worth. This has all the makings of a toxic relationship fuelled by drama.
YOU don’t even like him that much anymore from what you’re saying and you don’t trust him either.
When someone shows you who they are for the first time, believe them. There is no grand reveal or mystery, if a person shows you he’s dishonest, unreliable and a cheat then that’s just who he is..
Kim
Hey girl I’ve been there. I’m just like you. My I dk what he is at the moment lol my baby daddy -use to like or comment on other girls picture and when I brought it to his attention he’s like she has low confidence and whatever. I turned around an said well so do I but either way you don’t like or comment on my stuff. We had an argument but then he just never went back on his page. As he said if it caused an issue in your relationship he got rid of it.
But then time went on he didn’t go on but there was other apps I thought were innocent. I had asked about the girls pictures that pop up and he’s like I usually just scroll past. But I found out he didn’t some of them he would comment on in sexual way. And I got upset cuz he hasnt talk like that to me in a while. I ask why lie and he said you asked about naked pic they are partly clothed. Well that app was deleted as well.
But I don’t see it as over reacting. And you aren’t the only one to think the way you do. It’s hurtful, Suspicious and inappropriate
Marie
Why do men do such strange things. This is a huge red flag. There should be no reason to unfriend you unless he trying to hide something. Are you guys “in a relationship” on facebook? If not after 3 years something is up.
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