Specific advice on what I should do/if I should do anything

Stop right there. I have done exactly the same with a guy that i really liked….turned out badly. I even slept with his best friend drunk to get to him. They actually both considered me a booty call. At some point he had to tell me straight up that he’s dating a girl and to stop contacting me. This is when i realise i hit the rock bottom. We also had an amazing chemistry the first night. He even texted me the next day and actively pursued me to meet again not for sex but real dates. I was younger immature and inexperienced so i couldn’t handle real connection. I was constantly out getting drunk when he texted and i even went to find him uninvited at a party wasted. He even gave me another chance to start again. What did i do? I went to his place drunk again after midnight. It was so easy for him to get me there. Bottom line of the story: i presented myself as wanting more then treated him like a booty call he lost interest and i pursued hard no result. I saw him after 2 years with his gf. He wasn’t looking good gained weight and they were arguing on the street. Second lesson: you don’t always get what you want but it might be for the good. I learned my lesson. I don’t regret it cause with my current bf we started with sex but actually managed to emotionally connect by caring to get to know each other outside the sheets. For the first time i acted normal not distant but not booty call as i was doing before. No texts when drunk, no bs about not being this kind of girl….we even made out in the toilet when i first met him and we are able to laugh about it now and re- create it when we go to bars. Just put yourself together and let it go. This one is burnt.

He’s just not that in to you. When a guy is, there is no confusion. Remember that! You need to let this one go.