With covid happening, we did video introductions until it was safe enough to meet in person several months later. Video happened about 5 months in, which was a couple months after getting official seriously. But we’re also not so young meaning we’re both in a life stage where we’re certain of getting serious and where things are going for us. In the past, it was closer to a year unless family members happened to be in town visiting or vice-versa anyway. In all situations, it felt comfortable to meet after whatever the amount of time was that had passed (if it wasn’t mutually comfortable yet, we waited longer).