Meaningful Connections and conversations

It sounds like you might be *too much talk* and not interesting in other ways that men connect where you are using too much verbal and not enough non verbal. Do you have any interests, hobbies or activities that makes you light up and they would be interested in going with you? Are you able to be spontaneous where out of the blue you say “I haven’t don’t that in ages…wanna go?” and just pull in and do it? Do you have cool ideas that a man would love to do along with you?

Men are “action orientated” where if you can engage them in fun activities (they love to play) you can connect much easier with them which is the opposite of how you connect with a woman btw. Don’t get me wrong, a guy likes to shoot the crap (chit chat) with you here and there but it shouldn’t be to the point of boredom (yawn) where all they can think about is getting away so they can do something funner.

Maybe because I was a Tomboy I’m able to connect with men super easier than I am with woman lol. I keep them interested because I can play pool, darts, golf, softball, jump out of plane, go hit a sports pub and watch football, or just stop somewhere because it looks cool or interesting to do. During these activities we engage in some chit chat such as a fond childhood memory so its positive while a new good memory is being created. Or not chit at all and just being together, like watching a movie or driving somewhere while listening to the music and enjoying the silence together.

Just throwing a few ideas out.

I really agree with most what lane suggested. And having hobbies and interests is what makes you interesting to a guy that is interested in you. You can ask a guy what he likes to do and then volunteer to join him. Guys love that.