We’ve been seeing each other for about two months now and he’s an incredibly lovely guy and honestly seems to want to do anything and everything for me. I do like him and he is attractive, but the problem is…. I’m just not attracted to him.
I don’t want to have sex or anything like that and it’s already begun to feel like a friendship, not anything more… but I have absolutely not idea how to ‘break-ip’ with him without it making me seem like I’m using a cliche excuse like ‘it’s not you, it’s me’ because whilst it is that… that’s just so wrong to tell someone.
Hi Jessie-Tell him that he is a lovely guy but you are going to free him up to date others because he is looking for/deserves more, than friendship…but friendship is all you are able to offer him. You need to stop giving him false hope here.