Ignoring Me

It seems this situation is massively over analysed already – searching for one snippet of how that he really does like you, want to be with you and there must be something else getting in the way. Boil it down:

-someone that blows hot and cold is either (a) using you or (b) likes you enough to keep you as an option but doesn’t want anyone else to have you either

– you texted him it was over. He didn’t bother to respond showing he is simply not bothered

Honestly, you need to stop going round and round on this merry go round trying to rationalise it or romanticise it. He played a blinder, you unfortunately got used but learn from it and don’t let it happen again. It happens too often to too many women, myself included, but if we all learned our lesson then perhaps these guys would have more respect.

He is a jerk an unfortunately you got caught up in his game.. Heal and move on, it will take time but just accept it. As someone said the fact that he didnt even reply clearly shows that he does not care. He wanted you around while he kept his options open, too many times us as women accept the BS that these guys dish out. Maybe if more of us started making these guys respect us they would hve no one to pull these stunts on. I am sorry that you had to go through this as i myself a few months ago went through it. At that time i though i must have done something wrong and trie to find all the things that were wrong with me… But nothing was wrong with me he was just a jerk playing with my emotions from the start. You dont need this guy.