I need some opinions on the break up

I posted about this guy very long time ago and I’m ashamed that it took so long but it came to end today.
And I’m sad but also relieved. And I want to make sure I didn’t misjudge him or made the wrong decision.

Some background story:
We met 3 years ago, started dating for like 2 months and then he went to meet his ex and found out she was cheating on him. At night his exs friends or cousin kept calling him and he told me it was the alarm which clearly it’s not. The other day I told him we should take a break cuz I don’t feel good about this cuz he was obviously off around me he was distracted and not in the moment. He told me how sad he was that she cheated on him.

Weeks later, he had a car accident, I went to see him and started seeing him again, however it was mostly at his place. And he lied about a carpenter he had saying it’s from a friend, turned out it was one of his dates, then turned out it was his ex actually. I was disappointed and called it off again. I said I want something serious, and he said he’s not sure about that and didn’t want to waste my time. When I left, he asked me if we can still be friends. I said yea. And I left with heart broken.

Months later, he texted me asking me how I am and saying he’s over his ex and has been working on himself etc. (not sure how exactly) but then I started seeing someone back then and he asked me how come I forget him so soon. I told him he was the one who didn’t want anything, and eventually He wished me good luck and I thought that was it.

But then he still texted me here and there, eventually we met after I became single, and things seem okay but still lying about things. He said he’s single the whole time never kissed or dated anyone, but it turned out there this girl he dated. And I had all the proof in front of him and he denied it till months later. I mean it’s okay that he did cuz he had the right to do so, but why couldn’t he just tell me the truth?
And then there were more things like this, and also the focus on sex seems to be priority every time we see each other. And he blamed me for making him feel like he had to beg for sex.

So everything adding up together, I told him I can’t date him anymore. And maybe we can just be friends, and he said he can’t because he likes me too much. But then I tried to test him and I said what about fwb. He was like if that’s the only option he’ll take it. At that point I was disappointed again that sex is really the focus here like me as a person is not valuable enough to stay in touch.

And I said I don’t want to do that. He said so this is it? I said I think so, but I wish you the best still. He said same here but then started to say that he hates how I come and leave in his life and he tried to move on but I came back and then want nothing. Like he was super hurt.