How do I stop contacting him

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March 13, 2022 at 5:57 pm #931868 Reply

Lisa

Hi, I have a friend that I’ve shared a kiss with. I’m okay with being friends & it hasn’t bothered me extremely but the past few days I’ve felt myself wanting to reach out to him. After the kiss he started being distant & we’re now starting to be normal again. I sent him a snapchat this weekend & he’s responded but I found myself wanting to contact him again. How do I stop feeling this way or acting on it? I don’t want to delete him bc we’re integrated into each other’s lives & I don’t want to make things weird or for him to think I have serious feelings. Any advice pleaseee!

March 13, 2022 at 8:45 pm #931870 Reply

Sophia

Hi Lisa.
If you don’t want to make things weird, and things are getting back to normal, then continue on only as you normally do in your relationship with him as friends. Anything else may push him to think you want more, and if he doesn’t want that you run the risk of losing him altogether. Consider the kiss a one off and don’t allow it to happen again. Find someone else to kiss! 🙂

March 14, 2022 at 2:19 am #931873 Reply

Shabina

I wish knew how to I lasted a month without texting him 😕 but hes told me he doesn’t want me long story really long story 😔

March 14, 2022 at 3:18 am #931874 Reply

Honesty Rocks

You want what you can’t have. It’s a natural reaction and pull towards him. But use your brain it can only end up
Hurting you as he has told you. Forget about him. Find someone that does want you. Or sign up for years of misery.

March 14, 2022 at 1:03 pm #931878 Reply

mama

It’s never a long story — a lot of words may have been used, but the bottom line is the guy is not for you. As someone else posted above, go find someone else to kiss, or at least someone else to spend time with.
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