This is a first date situation. My legs are hurting as I just started gyming. so I don’t feel like going out. ibwanna reschedule but I have already rescheduled him once or twice. So I think he is taking vit as ke blowing him off as I am otherwise very social. So he has asked to come over or me to go over to his place and meet up there. He seems safe. I have spoken to him. A friend of mine works with him. So that is not an issue but i dont want to set myself cupp for booty calls by going home on the first date and being considered easy etc.
Go sit in a park. Go sit in a movie. Go sit in a coffee shop. Go sit in a bar. Go sit in restaurant. There are so many places to go sit, indoors or outdoors (I’d choose outdoors since there’s a pandemic) that require the same effort as it would to get to as his house.
There’s no need to sabotage a first date if you don’t want to.