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Tess
A while ago, one of my close friends asked me out and i was not sure at the moment so i asked for some time before I could respond. The main reason was because I was still not over my ex. We have been broken up for 4 years now. So after considering, I decided to agree to date him to see where it goes but the same day, my ex sent me a follow request, which I accepted and since then has been regularly liking my stories and posts. Soon I turned down my friend’s offer to date. My friends say that my ex I fluenced my decision. I do not totally agree about this but it does give me some hope sometimes. But a year ago he had told me that he wants to be friends and that’s why I broke off all contact because I was too in love with him to be just friends. I do not know what to do. I love him and I want him back but I am not sure if he also feels the same. And if he doesn’t, I want to move on. But it’s been 3 years and I have not been able to. The slightest contact from him is enough for me to feel like a giddy schoolgirl again.
AngieBaby
Yes, he has a sixth sense. It’s weird how when you start to move on an ex will pop up. It’s like they know you’re moving on and they want to block you, just because it strokes their ego. I’ve been dating guys on three occasions when their ex popped up. One was honest and said he was going to try with her again, one kept it from me and I found out by accident he was talking to her and I dumped him and one blocked her because he was done with her and didn’t want to interfere with our budding relationship.
Yes of course your ex influenced your decision to drop the other guy. Which is too bad because you’re willing to throw away a chance with someone else who is genuinely interested in you to continue being strung along by a man who doesn’t want you back. He just likes seeing if you’re still on the hook, which you are. You’re wasting a lot of time on someone who doesn’t want you. Doesn’t look like you’re going to get over him on your own. Get with a therapist and figure out why you’re so giddy from hearing from him. Sounds like you’ve got some fantasies about him you aren’t willing to let go. What’s so great about this guy? What are you afraid of if you completely let go of him and move on with another man?
Tammy
Agree with angie. Your wasting your time. He is just following you on social media. He hasnt got in touch to rekindle things with you. Ot has he? Has he tried talkin to you? If he hasnt, your just wasting your time. You need to block him, seek a therapist to help you move on.
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