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    I’m attracted to my boss. Like really attached. I go to sleep think about him and wake up thinking about him. But I’m happily married. What is happening? Why do I long his attention?

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    You arent happily married. If you were you would see this for what it is, a crush, and he wouldn’t be on your mind in this obsessive way.

    Your marriage seems to fall short. That’s not to say you don’t love your partner or what you have, but it isnt as complete as you would like to thiink

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    Sandra Gaskill

    This is the first time I have heard this issue addressed. I’m glad to know it’s not just me. My marriage was “in the state of repair” for years due to infidelity. I stayed with it as I agreed but did say there would be no second chance. He has honored that but it’s never been the same to me. I feel vulnerable to other relationships and recognize that. I’m trying to deal with it.

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    ps: He’s your boss… Nothing can come from this.

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    It is normal to be attracted to others outside of marriage. That is why you vow fidelity. It is not an empty vow – it is a living vow. There is a need not being met in your marriage, which is also normal, no one person can fill all our needs. I suggest you purposely shift your focus from the boss into positive outlets that help you grow as a person. Take classes, create something or do something new and challenging for yourself.
    It works.

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