Interested but doesn't make plans to see me??

Hi there.
I see that the topic here is pretty old but I was looking for a similar situation to what I have and now I found this topic here.
So I’ve got a colleague who showed a sexual interest in me. After some sexy emails he told me he was married but would like to take me out for a date. I gave an I-don’t-mind-hint and was waiting for his suggestion when we could go out. But since one weekend was not OK for him and another one for me, he was kind of shifting it already for the third weekend again although I had let him understand that we could arrange a lunch together during the week. So I was giving the floor to the man not insisting on the date but keeping showing that I was still interested. Yet when the waiting time turned for the third week I suggested to drop it because I was not interested any longer. He wrote he would be sad if “I give up so soon” and promised to try to take me out on that third Sunday. At the end he did not write to me neither on Sunday nor the following days, I threw him out of my head and suddenly he approaches me at work, gives me a nice hug and a neck-kiss, we have a small talk, he writes in the evening that he is tired but is going to fall asleep thinking of me and would write to me this weekend…and nothing… I really hope he is not going to write to me again, I don;t want to look hysterical, but this behaviour oh his starts to annoy me immensely.
I just want to understand why some men do such senseless things? don;t they have a better business to occupy themselves with?

This is simple, the married man was looking for an ego boost, distraction and easy sex.

Why would you even entertain a guy like that. He’s a creep, but the fact you know this about him and were willing to go along with it does not speak highly of you.

I will say this, and I’ve said it before. If you knowingly get involved in any way with a married or attached man, then you deserve to get crapped all over. And you certainly deserve to have it done to you when you get serious with a guy.

Women should be supporting and building each other up, not sh*ting all over one another. I don’t understand at all how some people have no compunction or shame in these matters. I truly don’t

No integrity

The better question is why would you be willing to date a married man who is a co-worker? Where do you think that one is going, seriously????

So i have been seeing this guy for 2 a little over 3 months now and i told him the other week that i liked him but i dont think he has time for me. He immediately made plans and said he doesnt want me to walk away. Was texting me all week how he wants to see me. we had a great night and he said we would make things work. anyways he said let me know when your free so i texted him today and he responded hey you! and then i asked how his day was took him 1 hours to text back and said his week is really busy. I know his birthday is this thursday so i know he is busy so i said i can understand that but id like to see you saturday and it has been 4 hours and still hasnt responded and he has never done this. Hes not very good with keeping in tough during the week. I want to text him and say the i need more communication and someone that shows interest in me but then im too needy. Part of me just wants to end things because i feel like i deserve a man that is willing to invest his time in me throughout the week even when we cant get together. I love spending time with him when we do but then its nothing, its like he has someone else. I dont want to waste my time on someone who is not interested in me.

I’m sorry A, but you really shouldn’t take advice from women on this forum only you should take advice from men. When When guys says things like he has been hurt or just is a certain way it’s an excuse to justify his own bad behavior and to give himself himself cop out for not changing. The fact that he wouldn’t even pick you up one time is sign enough, but then he doesn’t even make sure you’re fed after you drive all the way to see him. You should Google “emotionally unavailable men” and I think some lightbulbs will go off. There are guys who would walk through fire for you somewhere out there, but you’re wasting your youth on a user. Please move on.