'we should do it again sometime'


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    mary

    Hi all,

    Had a first meeting with someone at the weekend, it went well we had drinks, he paid, after we went for a walk, hugged hello and goodbye

    45 mins or so after the date i get a text from him saying ‘ i had a good time, hopefully do it again sometime!’ didn’t expect to hear from him on my way home, i thought it was nice, replied i did too and thanked him again for my drink.

    is this an empty parting text? or is he legit and actually wants to do it again? from one past experience the guy never followed up and we both just exist on social medias lol

    so yeah, just a basic polite text or actually meant it?

    thanks yall

    #660503 Reply
    Newbie

    I dont know but it sounds very casual to me. By itself not a bad thing, compared to the over the top chasers who in general disappear very fast. You see if he contacts you again

    #660504 Reply
    redcurleysue

    There is no way to know if he means it or was being polite.

    But, I give the guy kudos for manners.

    #660506 Reply
    mary

    i think so too, just wondering if this was something said thats just an empty remark ynno?

    he hasnt replied to my text so we’ll see i suppose

    would just be a bummer and effect my self esteem if he chose not to

    #660512 Reply
    Ashley

    It could go either way but more importantly you need solid self-esteem that isn’t affected by guys who you don’t even know. You’re awesome so try not to focus on it! Let guys come to you & lead, don’t stress the rest

    #660538 Reply
    Betty

    Please don’t even give a thought as to what his next move will be. And don’t text or call him, or reach out to him in any way. One date and you’re already stressing over stuff that hasn’t even happened yet. Go on with your life. If he wants to see u he’ll get in touch with u.

    #660563 Reply
    Khadija

    Only time will tell if he meant that.

    Try not to over think a first date because you never know what it could turn into.

    Also, please try to have a tougher skin for dating. A man not following up after one date should not be able to effect your self esteem in anyway.

    I understand that dating these days can be filled with disappointments but,you cannot take it personally. Stay positive.

    You have to learn to just say next whenever a guy shows he is not for you.

    #660565 Reply
    Lori

    This is another case of words versus action. Like everybody else is saying, don’t stress to much about the meaning of this. In fact, don’t even think about it at all. You are unnecessarily investing time and emotions only after one meeting

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