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Liz Lemon.
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Bella
I have been seeing this guy exclusively for last 3 months , on the first few dates he asked me to be exclusively and said i would be his potential gf or life partner and would tell me how much he likes me etc. Now i feel i am more attached to him. I am always confused about us qs he never talks about us. We do meet 2 to 3 times a week , we message each other the whole day atleast when we have time , not a day has gone by without wishing good morning and good night. Anything new with him , he messages me and when we meet we really have a nice time. He makes me feel special and remember every word i say and its all good except he doesn’t talk about our relationship or when i get emotional and message him about how i feel , instead of telling me what he feels, he sends me lots or kiss emojios. I dont know what they mean , if it means he feel the same way , or its like no comments . I dont get why would someone just send kiss emojis in such a situation, any thoughts??
tammy
i think it simply means he does not know what he feels or wants from this relationship at this point. hence he is not saying anything in reply.
Erin
“On the first few dates he asked me to be exclusively and said i would be his potential gf or life partner and would tell me how much he likes me etc”
Sounds like love bombing and future faking.
Here are the terms
“A future faker uses promises, inferences and intensity to simulate intimacy. On the receiving end, you’re subconsciously (and sometimes consciously) associating what they’re doing with someone you know far better than you do. It’s why so many people who’ve felt confused about what was real and what was fake, talk about feeling as if they knew this person already very quickly”
“Love bombing involves being showered with affection, gifts, and promises for the future with someone making you believe you may have discovered love at first sight.The person is loving, caring, and affectionate, and they seem to just get you. Things progress quickly, and you start to wonder whether this is what you’ve been missing”
I’m really not a fan of men who are vague about their feelings for you but want you to be open with yours and tell them how you feel. It doesn’t cost him much to say I’m with you, I’m in this, I want this to work as much as you do
Men who are vague about their feelings are usually on the fence.
Liz Lemon
What is it that you message him, exactly? You get “emotional” and message him about how you feel, what does that mean?
You shouldn’t discuss relationship issues or feelings over text or messenger. There’s too much potential for misunderstanding. A huge part of communication is nonverbal– it’s body language, facial expression, tone of voice. So if you want to talk about feelings and emotions, it should be in person, or at the bare minimum over the phone, where you can at least hear his voice. Texting should be reserved for day to day communication (“how’s your day?”, just to say hi, or exchanging information), jokes, funny articles or memes, etc. It shouldn’t be used for deep expressions of emotion or for “talks about us”.
I have more thoughts on this, but I’ll refrain from saying anything until I have more info about what it is you’re saying to him. I don’t think I have a good understanding of what is being said, so it would help to have more details.
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