I met a guy online. After a few e-mails, we texted with each other. His first text message was sexual and, being a flirty person, I responded back with some flirtatious banter. By the time we met up there was no conversation, it was virtually straight to sex.
We continued meeting up and for the first 5 times I took it as just sex. Not just sex, but really aggressive, dirty sex and sexual role-playing. A turning point came where he started showing another side of himself. A sweet, caring side. He even cooked me dinner.
I can tell he lusts for me, but given the way this started out I don’t know that there’s a chance any relationship could come out of this. I’m not a clingy/needy type of girl and I give him space, but if there were any possibility of this becoming something more I’d like to pursue it.
What are your thoughts on a relationship happening after sex on the first date? Is sex on the first date a relationship killer?