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Peggy.
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Renae
I need ideas for sexual fantasies. I ruined my boyfriend’s fantasy of me him and a black guy in a threesome. Now my man has no fantasy and will leave me if i dont come up with new ideas. Thanks
Hs
Help him out the door
peggy
Renae-how/where are you meeting these jerks? I would not date a guy like that. Sounds like you are just being used for sex. Stop dating and ask yourself what YOU WANT. Then have some standards to avoid people like this.
peggy
P.S. Sexual fantasies are not something you invent-they usually are already an idea in your head-if you have to think of one,it really is not something you seem very into of your own accord.
Renae
Ive been with him for 2 years. I dont know what to do. He says i need to create excitement and make him want to stay with me. He told me the other night to leave. That he’ll find someone who can satisfy him. That with a little creativity and imagining that i can come up with scenarios for him. I’m stuck and lost for ideas.
Raven
Let the black guy do him…
Eyes wide open
Oh Dear, please look at yourself in the mirror and realize that you are a woman who is worth unconditional love and respect.A man has to figure out how to KEEP YOU interested,this man is playing psychological games with you, he plays you like a fiddle.
I know is not the answer you’re looking for, but I truly wish you the best in life.
Anderson
What kind of 2-year boyfriend gives his gf ultimatums that she needs to come up with fantasies or they’re through? Usually guys have plenty fantasies themselves that they can’t wait to try out
On the off chance that this is even a real post, google will help you way better for fantasy suggestions than this forum.
Renae
This is a real post. I was wondering why I’m at a loss and wondering why i can’t have a normal relationship. Why do i have to come up with a fantasy or something to raise the hairs on the back of his neck…his words. It hasn’t and doesn’t seem right to me. But i have no job, no family, no friends….nowhere to go if this doesn’t work out.
peggy
Renae-ok,I understand your problem now-you have allowed him to isolate or you have isolated yourself but relying on him for everything. This is no better than being a slave to whatever someone else wants. You have to take back control of your life.
If need be,contact a shelter or welfare service to make some connections. Or if you need work-any McDonald’s,Wendy’s etc. would surely give you work,get you started on a new path. Plus you could make friends at a workplace. Make a plan right now to “take your life back”.You can do this and be so much happier,not all worried and scared if you don’t do someone’s bidding.Good luck!Anderson
Sorry, Renae. Occasionally we get bored people create stories to get specific reactions and this seemed like the type
I’m still not going to give you any fantasy tips because I see that as appeasing toxic behavior from your bf. I agree with peggy that there are way better alternatives. What country are you in?
Renae
I’m in the us…wa state. I left him once before but went back. I love him so much but also don’t at the same time. I’m scared of change and leaving. But if i don’t come up with something, he’ll tell me to leave anyways. Why is he like this. Why can’t he be normal? What did i do?
Peggy
Hi Renae-this is not your fault that he is like this-however you are the only one responsible for getting yourself help and creating your own happiness. This does not sound like healthy “love” on either side.
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