You’re Here Because You Want to Know—Does He Like Me?
Let’s be real: you’re not here for another pile of “tips” that leave you just as confused as before.
You want real answers—how to know, for sure, if a guy likes you… and you want something even more valuable: how to make him interested in you, how to make him like you back, so he actually wants you.
If you’ve ever found yourself searching article after article, asking friends for advice or overanalyzing every little thing a guy does—
…wondering what every look means, replaying conversations late at night, scanning your texts for “hidden clues,”
…and still not getting the clarity (or the results) you want—you’re in the right place.
Why Does All the Advice Out There Still Leave You Wondering?
You already know what it’s like:
You read an article that promises to decode his “secret signals”…
You watch a video that tells you to “just be confident” or “play hard to get”…
You get another list of “signs he likes you” that could mean everything or nothing.
And yet, after all of it, you’re still left with the same uneasy feeling:
You’re lying in bed, staring at the ceiling, mind racing, feeling like you’re missing something that everyone else seems to have figured out.
“Why do I still not know for sure? Why am I still confused—and why does nothing seem to actually work?”
If you’ve ever told yourself it’s just not possible for you, I want you to see what happens when you give yourself permission to try one more time—with the right approach.
Maybe you’re reading this thinking, “Sure, this probably works for other women—but not for someone like me.”
Maybe you have a voice in your head that lists off all the reasons you can’t have what you want—maybe it’s your looks, your age, your past, what’s happened before or something you think you’re missing.
I’m not going to insult you by pretending those things don’t matter at all—of course, there are real factors that shape how attraction works and I’ll always tell you the truth. But here’s what most people never realize:
The amount you can improve your love life, your confidence and your results is usually far, far greater than you think—even if you’ve tried everything before. Most people never even scratch the surface of what’s actually possible for them.
I’ve seen women who believed they were “too far gone,” “too old” or “not enough”—and watched them have breakthroughs the moment they started seeing things through the right lens.
Not because they turned into someone else overnight, but because they finally saw the path that works for them.
If you’ve been disappointed in the past or even embarrassed by how things turned out before, I get it. But if you’re here, it means a part of you still wants to believe there’s hope. I can’t do the work for you, but I can show you a way that actually works—if you’re willing to see it with fresh eyes.
If you’re feeling that, it’s not your fault.
The truth is, most advice out there is just noise. It’s all surface-level—tactics, labels, “tips”—but none of it gives you the core understanding you need to actually get results.
What you want isn’t just another answer—you want the right answer, delivered in a way that finally makes it click.
What Makes This Approach a Total Game-Changer?
And before we get to that… who am I and why should you listen to me?
I’m Eric Charles and since 2002, I’ve been obsessed with one thing: what actually works—not just what sounds good, not what gets clicks, not what “sells” on social media.
My work’s been featured in Cosmopolitan, Marie Claire, Glamour, Vogue, HuffPost, Fox News, ABC News and received over a billion views. But what actually matters is this:
I’ve helped thousands of women, just like you, go from confusion, heartbreak and “endless searching” to finally having the love life they want.
Many years ago, I started out just like you—frustrated, searching for answers, constantly disappointed by advice that didn’t work in real life. I’ve seen how much bad advice is out there.
Honestly, it drives me crazy to see good women led down endless dead-ends or, worse, convinced that something is “wrong” with them (or the guy) when all they needed was a new way to see the situation.
That’s why I do this: to put real power and real results back in your hands.
Why Most Advice Fails (and What Actually Works)
The problem isn’t you—it’s the “advice treadmill.” Most so-called experts throw out tactics, labels or endless side-quests that don’t get you what you want.
You end up feeling like you’re running on a hamster wheel—getting nowhere, but exhausted from the effort.
They’ll tell you to keep reading, keep analyzing, keep “healing”—but never actually show you the moves that work.
I don’t believe in band-aid tactics or endless self-diagnosis. I believe in clarity—in giving you a lens to see exactly what’s happening, so you can stop spinning your wheels and get the results you want.
What you need isn’t more information. You need a new way of seeing this area of your life—the way naturally successful women do.
I want to give you that “aha” moment where everything clicks and you see the path from confusion to confidence.
Because when you understand what works, you naturally do what works.
And that’s when everything changes—like going from stumbling through a dark room, to flipping on the lights and seeing everything clearly at last.
Why This Is Different Than Everything Else Out There…
I don’t give you tactics—I give you a lens that lets you see what’s really happening.
So instead of feeling lost, you see the clear path forward.
Instead of trying to memorize “signs,” you naturally know what to do, because it makes sense.
You’ll notice right away—this isn’t about giving you more to memorize.
This is about making it all make sense, so you never have to search for this answer again.
Imagine yourself walking into a crowded party and seeing him across the room. Instead of feeling a flutter of nerves or panicking about what you’ll say, you catch his eye and simply smile—confident, relaxed and in control.
Picture starting your morning with a quiet cup of coffee, scrolling through your phone and smiling at his good-morning message—not because you’re anxiously waiting, but because you already know exactly where you stand with him.
Feel the calm of sitting across from him at dinner, laughing naturally, knowing you never have to guess what he’s thinking—because you can read him and you know exactly how to keep that spark alive.
My Mission: Your Success, So You Can Live Your Best Life
I do this work because I want you to have your love life handled once and for all.
I want you to finally have the love life you really want, so you can get on with making the rest of your life great now, too.
I see so many people, men and women, held back from living their best life because the struggles in their love life block them from living their full potential (and enjoying full happiness).
I want you to have it all. I want you to have the love life you really want and, beyond that, I want you to get to live your best life.
I think the more people that have that, the better this world will be for everyone. So my mission is to help make that happen as much as I can.
And right now, my mission is to help you.
Here’s What You’ll Get In the Next Few Pages
- The foolproof way to know if a guy likes you—no guesswork, no mind games
- Exactly how to make him interested in you and want you back—without risking embarrassment, awkwardness or rejection
- The “magnetic mindset” that makes you instantly more attractive (without pretending to be someone you’re not)
- How to create the kind of connection that grows over time—so you’re not just another “option,” but the woman he wants to chase
Let’s get into it…
Strategic Flirting: The Secret To Knowing For Sure That He Likes You (And To Making Him Like You, Too).
Let’s talk about flirting.
Understanding flirting is incredibly valuable because it solves a major problem when you’re first attracted to someone and want to get things moving.
See, at first when a woman sees a guy she’s attracted to, sometimes she makes the mistake of wanting to look for absolute signs that he likes her before she makes any attempt to interact with him.
Sure, there are some signs that a guy might send if he’s interested before you interact with him.
But a lot of the time, guys are neutral even when they would be very attracted to you under the right circumstances.
You really don’t know if a guy likes you, could like you or could be attracted to you until you test the waters.
That’s what flirting really is: it’s a way to test the waters with a guy without risking rejection or embarrassment.
What do I mean by this?
The big idea of flirting is that you are doing things that could be interpreted as you just being fun and friendly, not making overt passes at him or overt shows of attraction.
The behavior is ambiguous and up for interpretation.
It’s that way by design and it serves a very important purpose: if he’s not interested, both of you can save face without any awkwardness, embarrassment or rejection.
All you’re doing is setting him up to show you if he’s attracted or not – if he’s interested, he will take it in a flirty direction; if not, the interaction simply stays friendly.
The worst that happens is nothing happens and nobody is the wiser.
This doesn’t just spare you from embarrassment or rejection but also him too.
You are both able to invisibly explore if you’re attracted to each other while both saving face and sparing each other awkwardness.
How to Read His Response: The Flirtation Volley
If he is attracted, here’s what happens: he will return flirtation in your direction.
What I mean is he will send back a response that also could be interpreted as just being fun and friendly or as showing actual attraction to you.
So he volleys it back to you and you respond with something that could be interpreted as fun and friendly or as attraction.
Again, you’re just volleying it back and forth.
To spell it out: You’re intentionally sending “mixed signals” (that could be interpreted as friendliness or actual attraction) and he’s responding with mixed signals, too.
I’ll talk about the only true foolproof sign he likes you in a moment, but for now I just want you to understand the main idea: you’re each intentionally sending mixed signals, so you can each test the waters without awkwardness.
I know that might have been a bit repetitive but I just needed to make sure that’s crystal clear to you.
OK? Onward…
Along the way either he or you might turn up the intensity.
Maybe as you’re volleying it, one of you says something that’s a bit more overt or direct in showing attraction.
If he’s escalating it, that’s a big sign of interest and one that actually matters because it’s showing direct intention on his part, not wishful interpretation on yours.
If you increase the intensity and he matches it, that’s also a huge sign of interest.
But it only makes sense for you to increase the intensity if you are nearly certain he’s into it.
This is because the more direct and overt you get, the more you could risk rejection, awkwardness or embarrassment.
So by no means do you ever need to be the one escalating it.
In fact, I would even say it’s better to leave the ball in his court to ratchet up the intensity, since it’s a huge show of interest on his part.
Your job is just to make it very clear that it would be well received, so he feels he can go for it.
Again, this is flirtation so the name of the game is mixed signals. The name of the game is ambiguity.
But you do want to make it as easy as possible for them to show and intensify their interest in the interaction.
Creating Space for Connection: The Conversation Environment
So how do you do that while still being flirtatious and not obvious?
The biggest thing is that the door to communication is open.
That is, they have the opportunity to respond freely.
Some people need some warm up time in interactions, so even if he would be incredibly interested in you, some guys are a bit shy or need some warm up time before they can come out of their shell.
If you’re in an ongoing back-and-forth interaction and he doesn’t feel pressure to say the perfect thing because there’s plenty of conversation space to move in, he can relax. When he’s relaxed, he can get comfortable with responding.
That’s the biggest prerequisite of all of this – there’s a space for him to operate in.
A big thing here is asking open-ended questions that give him room to answer without trying too hard. When the questions sound too planned or complex, it can sound awkward and try-hard… It should sound effortless.
But regular conversations are not a continuous stream of open-ended questions.
It’s not a job interview.
The Magnetic Mindset: Assume He Already Likes You
So more than open-ended questions, a bigger secret to creating the sort of space that makes flirtation really easy for both of you is how you think about the interaction and the energy you bring to it.
What am I talking about here?
The best way you can think of the interaction is that you’re already comfortable talking to each other.
That is, in the privacy of your own mind, you imagine that you and him are already comfortable talking to each other, like you’ve been doing it your whole lives.
Like you already like each other, already know each other and already enjoy each other.
This is a powerful mindset secret.
When you assume they already like you, that can actually have a positive effect towards influencing them to like you.
While they won’t be able to put their finger on it, it will feel more natural to like you.
The reason is, subconsciously, the way you’re talking already lines up with that reality.
So it feels natural for them to go in that direction to line up with it.
So that’s a powerful mindset secret right there.
But also it has a powerful effect for you: when you decide to assume he’s already comfortable talking to you, already likes you and already enjoys talking to you, it shuts down a lot of bad paths. These are the bad paths your mind and emotions could go down when talking to a new person.
Specifically, when you imagine you’re already comfortable talking to him and he already likes you, you won’t do things to try and make him like you.
Ironically that’s the kind of stuff that turns people off the most.
After all, when you think of the people we’re closest to, they’re not doing things to try and make you like them.
Why?
Because they already know you like them and they like you.
You’re already past that and so the way you talk to each other is the way that people who like each other talk to each other.
Same goes with flirtation: when you step into the mindset that they already like you, your brain doesn’t go into the trap of thinking: How do I get them to like me? How do I make them like me? What would impress them?
People only operate from that space when they don’t think the other person likes them yet!
Doesn’t that just make sense?
So that’s why all the behaviors and communication that comes from that space stinks of desperation: The only people who do it are people who want you to like them but don’t think you do (or would).
If a guy really likes you, he will forgive it as just nervousness and awkwardness and try to smooth it over (but that’s still not great).
If he might like you, this wrong mindset might be enough to turn him off because it sends the signal of “wait this person doesn’t think they’re good enough for me… Maybe they aren’t.”
It puts their guard up.
Now here I have to clearly remind you that this assume-he-already-likes-you mindset is part of the overall flirting strategy.
Yes, it’s powerful on its own as a mindset, it’s an attractive mindset that will make you come across as more attractive to everyone when you use it, but you are still using this in the context of flirting.
What I mean is yes you are assuming they like you, are comfortable with you and enjoy talking with you, but that does not translate into you being able to just say anything to them and get away with it.
You are still flirting which is intentionally speaking to them in a way that could be interpreted as just being fun and friendly or as potentially attracted.
I just have to make it clear that yes you have this mindset, but you’re still communicating ambiguously, not skipping past that step to let it evolve naturally.
This mindset of assuming he likes you, enjoys you and is comfortable with you makes the conversation tilt in your favor and can powerfully amplify your attractiveness. But it doesn’t allow you to skip steps or force things.
There’s still a process.
Body Language That Invites Interest Without Desperation
But beyond that, you are showing positive signs without being too over the top with it.
I’m talking about things like eye contact, smiling, showing positive responses.
This is straightforward enough, you just need to find where the line is for you between showing positive receptive signs while still leaving it open to interpretation (are you attracted or just fun and friendly?).
This is just something you have to figure out for yourself.
Dealing With Social Pressure
Let’s talk about something that comes up often – other women.
If another girl likes a guy, she will view any woman trying to talk to that guy as a potential threat who’s flirting with him and trying to attract him.
You can’t take that as serious feedback because it’s not – it’s coming from her own jealousy or intention to guard against another woman taking him from her.
So unfortunately, this might be something you have to deal with when talking to any guy – other women who want him and see you as a threat.
This is another reason why flirtation is so useful – sure that other woman is going to see you as a threat no matter what and frame you as flirting with the guy.
But again that’s just because she wants him and so it’s likely she’ll interpret things that way.
In the broader picture if you’re flirting effectively, you will have plausible deniability in the eyes of everyone else.
Other people can just look at the situation and say oh she’s just fun and friendly, she’s not doing anything wrong.
Whereas if you were incredibly overt with showing you want the guy, throwing yourself at him in ways that were obvious to everyone, then it puts a certain social pressure on the situation.
Other people would see you as throwing yourself at him and therefore put social pressure on both of you.
What I’m saying is he knows other people are watching how he reacts to your obvious signs of interest.
He might not want that kind of attention and so he backs off interacting with you because he doesn’t like that social spotlight on him.
Flirting in the way I explain it keeps your interactions subtle and invisible to everyone else and therefore, keeps the social pressure off for both of you.
The One True Signal That He’s Interested: Continued Engagement
Now with flirting, we’ve talked about how you are intentionally sending mixed signals that invite him to send mixed signals back.
We also talked about the mindset you bring to it where you assume he already likes you, enjoys you and is comfortable talking with you.
The ultimate sign that he likes you is simply this: he keeps the flirtation going.
That doesn’t even necessarily mean either one of you escalates it.
Just the fact that he’s keeping it going and continuing to volley mixed signals back means that there’s interest there on his part.
I touched on this before: looking for signs of interest or signs he likes you is a mistake if you’re not actively communicating with him.
Why?
Well, I said before that even if he might like you a lot, he might not show any of those signs until you’re interacting with him.
But also, during these interactions, his interest for you might grow.
It feels good to talk to someone who is fun and comfortable to talk to.
Most people aren’t, actually.
Just being fun and comfortable to talk to can be attractive and grow his attraction for you over time.
Another rule with flirting is don’t rush it.
If you’re going back and forth and he is escalating it and you’re matching that energy, cool, keep going, no problem.
But some guys need a bit of time and if you’re not in a rush, you’ll get the best results.
For example, maybe you interact with the guy and volley some communication back and forth.
He keeps it going with you but it doesn’t escalate anywhere and eventually you go your separate ways.
When he’s home, by himself, he might start reflecting on you and the interaction.
He might start thinking to himself how he hadn’t considered it before, but he found you cute and fun to talk to.
He might find himself wanting to talk to you more.
And that can be the start of his growing attraction for you.
So over time, you have more interactions and things do escalate, it just happens over several interactions, not one straight shot.
Opening the Door to Future Flirtation: Getting His Contact Info
Now, if you have a guy that you’ve been into and you get into a conversation, it’s great if you have a graceful way to get his contact info.
Years ago, the only way to get a hold of someone was if you had their phone number.
But now everyone has all sorts of social media.
Getting their social media screen names isn’t such a direct show of interest.
And maybe you want to send him funny memes.
Maybe you want to watch his Instagram stories where he’s playing with his cat.
My point is that if you have a stack of graceful reasons to get a guy’s contact info or social media, that opens a huge door for you to continue the flirtation gracefully over time.
Everyone’s on their phone all day anyway and it’s private.
It’s just between you and him and most people are less inhibited on their social media than in real life communication.
I’m referring to how he might be shy in person or feel pressured to be witty on the spot when talking.
But behind the safety and privacy of his social media (and with time to think about his replies before he sends them), he’s comfortable with being a bit more bold.
So I do encourage you to get his socials if he has them, whichever one would give you DM access to him.
Some men aren’t on social media and aren’t big texters. You won’t have this advantage with those guys, but everything else I’ve shared still applies.
Review: Putting It All Together (So I Know You See The “Big Picture” Now)
You’re interacting with him in a way that could be interpreted as just fun and friendly.
You have a mindset that helps make him attracted: You assume he likes you, enjoys you and is comfortable talking with you already.
You see if he keeps the interaction going – volleying the flirtation back to you. He’s interacting in a way that could be fun and friendly or could be showing attraction.
You know he likes you if he keeps it going.
You get his contact information as quick as you gracefully can (and this is easy for you because you have a stack of innocent reasons to get it from him).
So here we reviewed the ultimate way to know if a guy is interested in you.
We covered how to make him interested in you without risking embarrassment, awkwardness or rejection.
We explored the most attractive mindset to bring into interactions with a guy and how to gracefully grow his attraction to you over time.
How To Make Him Really Interested…
By now, you have what you came for: you know the foolproof way to find out if a guy likes you and you know how to make him interested in you—without risking rejection or awkwardness.
You’re already ahead of 99% of women out there.
But let’s be real: this is just the beginning.
Imagine What’s Possible…
Knowing he likes you is great.
Knowing how to make him interested is even better.
But if you’re honest, what you truly want is to know how to make him see you as special.
Picture this:
- He lights up when you walk into the room, his eyes instantly searching for you.
- He texts you first thing in the morning, because you’re the first thing on his mind—and the last thought before he falls asleep.
- He introduces you to his friends, proud to have you by his side, making you feel like you’re the only woman in the world.
- He’s planning dates, pursuing you, investing in you, making effort not because he “has to,” but because he’s excited by the thought of winning you over—again and again.
- You feel that certainty and peace in your heart, because you’re not left wondering “where you stand”—you know you’re the one he wants.
And even more, you want to know how to keep that feeling alive—so you’re never left wondering, “Is he losing interest? Is he going to pull away? Am I going to lose him?”
Why Most Women Stay Stuck—And Why You Don’t Have To
Here’s the truth nobody tells you: Not all interest is created equal.
You can get a guy’s attention, but that doesn’t mean you’ll get his devotion, his investment or his commitment.
Too many women end up in “situationships,” short-term flings or as the fun distraction before he finds someone else.
Imagine:
- Being the woman he cancels plans for, rearranges his schedule for, because being with you is the highlight of his week.
- Feeling him open up to you, confiding things he’s never told anyone else, because he trusts you in a way he can’t explain.
- Watching him show up for you—not just when it’s easy, but when it matters—because he’s as invested in your happiness as you are in his.
The difference between being “just another girl” and being the woman he can’t let go of is understanding how to reach the part of him that feels pulled to you—how to trigger the feelings in him that make him want to chase you, commit to you and see you as completely irreplaceable.
And that’s not about being the prettiest, the youngest or the most perfect.
It’s about understanding how men really work—what actually makes them fall in love, invest and stay hooked for life.
The Bigger Picture—And How You Can Have It
You don’t want to just “win” a guy’s interest.
You want to know you have real power and choice in your love life—where you effortlessly attract, inspire and keep the love you want, for the rest of your life.
No more anxiety, no more second-guessing, no more heartbreak.
That’s what I want for you, too.
There’s a deeper level of understanding, a new way of seeing men and relationships, that allows you to create the kind of connection where you’re not just another option—you’re the only option.
Where you don’t have to question where you stand, because you know exactly how to connect with him in a way that makes you unforgettable in his world.
You might still have a voice in your head telling you, “That’s not for me.” But if you let that voice win, you’ll never find out just how much is possible for you.
I’m not promising magic. But I am promising that if you follow this with an open mind, you’ll discover options and results you never imagined were within reach.
Picture waking up to the warmth of his arms wrapped around you, his sleepy voice whispering how lucky he feels to have you in his life.
See yourself glancing at your phone in the afternoon and finding a sweet message from him, just because he was thinking of you—and feel that rush of knowing you’re his priority, not just another option.
Imagine joining him at a family gathering, his hand finding yours under the table, everyone around you noticing the way he looks at you—like you’re the only woman in the world.
Feel yourself stepping off the rollercoaster of anxiety and into a relationship where you’re cherished, supported and completely at ease—where you’re adored, not just “liked.”
If you want to discover the real secret to becoming the woman he can’t let go of—the one he wants to chase, invest in and commit to, for good—
I want you to see what I put together for you next.
One Last Thing Before You Go
You came here for answers. I hope I gave you something even better—a new way to see yourself, your power and how much is actually possible in your love life.
If you’re done with confusion, heartbreak and chasing advice that never delivers, then this is your moment. Handle this area, once and for all and step into the love life you truly deserve.
You don’t need more “tips.” You need the right lens. The rest is easy.
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