Why Ghosting hurts so much :(


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    Diva

    I met a guy, the first date was great.
    Soon after that he asked me when he is going to meet me agin, i was keeping sick so I told him.
    His texts dropped. I wanted to keep things clear so I left a voice message that he wants to see other people since I am not well he can surely do that, he took it as a bye-bye ( I AM NOT INTERESTED) message.
    We talked and clreared things out.
    We texted for a week and then he ghosted me on read..for more than 10 days.

    I thought to myself may be I can be the bigger person here and text him if he was doing ok, to which he responded that he is doing good.

    I felt so much disgust and hatred towards me for texting someone who didn’t wanted to be bothered may be.

    #788486 Reply
    Raven

    I don’t see that he ghost you. You only had one date…

    #788491 Reply
    Tallspicy

    You had one date and you told him he could date while you were sick? After he had not been in contact? WTH? When a mans texts drop after one date he is not interested and does not need to be told he can still see others.

    #788526 Reply
    Ss

    Yeah your behaviour here was a bit weird! He didn’t need to be told that he has permission to date because he isn’t your bf and you’ve had one date!

    Clearly for whatever reason he wasn’t so into you after that date and you voice messaging him probably put him off more.
    I’d say learn from this and move on x

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