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    Kelly

    So guys. I need to vent. Not only i’m super upset, i haven’t been able to sleep since, but I kinda want to know if it happened to anyone, how did you deal with it ?

    There is this one guy, i was mad in love with for years, unfortunately, we never made it as a couple. We flirted, had sex etc… for years. Anyway. This guy is a manipulator, a (i suspect) narcissist, flirt with EVERYONE and i mean EVERYONE. claim his female “friends” are just “friends” whatever… and well, something awful happened.
    Back a few month ago, he talked to me (randomly) about how a girl from work always try to kiss him, that she’s a b*** etc… and well i ask him if he wanted to date her, (as i knew we were going to have sex a few hours later) but i didnt want to have sex with him if he wanted her, like, why would I ? he said: me ? hell no!

    And now, fast forward, we had sex, we sexted, and after years, he decided to cut me off; out of nowhere. after YEARS. I felt so upset, so sad, so used. I know i shouldnt have had sex with him but i was in love with him always hoping…

    AND LAST WEEK, i see they are going on holiday together !!! him and the girl he SWORE he didn’t like…
    He had already cancelled 4 holidays on me… and i feel absolutely betrayed. used, manipulated, and it just makes me sick to the point i can’t eat, I can’t do anything, and spend my days crying. It’s unfair.

    Then he goes around, post photos of himself, and funny enough, its always the same women that “like” his photos… some of them hadn’t liked anything for a while and OBVIOUSLY all of a sudden, literally EVERY girl he flirted with, his female “friends”, like his photos…

    It makes me sick. How do you stop loving a player, an awful person?

    I needed to vent. Do any of you had something similar happening ?

    #802194 Reply
    Kelly

    I forgot to add: This one girl, is actually a b*** she had met his ex, and he cheated on his ex, with this girl, and this girl pretended to be sweet to his ex, pretended to be friend with him when in fact they were together cheating.
    So ultimate betrayal for the ex and me.
    I just wish i could insult him for all the pain…

    #802402 Reply
    Lisa

    I’m afraid you were totally played by this man.

    What’s worse is you continued to sleep with him after he “popped up” out of no where.

    You knew he was a manipulator and narcissist. Why did you continue to entertain him, knowing this?

    I’m sorry but it’s your own fault here. You must walk away from players forever! Each time you go back to these guys, you will be used and abused.

    Heal yourself through this pain and look for someone who actually respects you!

    #802409 Reply
    Raven

    He cheeted on his ex with this girl- He sounds amazing… Not

    #802449 Reply
    Kelly

    @Raven, I know, it’s gross :/

    @lisa I know, i’m stupid, but i was so in love with this man :( what hurt me so much is why taking this girl on holidays, after he told me sh*** behind her back and now i think they’re dating… it hurts so much.

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