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    Julie Thomas

    I spoke to this guy for 2 months. On Match. I plan on moving to FL, where he live. I live in CA and we spoke everyday all day! He said he would help me move, pick my kid up from school, he loved me, wanted to get me ring. Anything and everything…he wanted me to move close to him and we were going to look around his area. Anyways, I get there and he asks me to go to dinner. I told him just come to the hotel and we’ll decide. He comes up and I hug him…we’ve exchanged so so many pics of us younger, older..videos. We sit on the patio and we talk…we go back inside because it’s hot out there and we are talking watching TV. I had severe jet lag. I only got 3 hours of sleep the night before because I had work…he knew. Anyways, I’m too nervous to eat anything for dinner at the time it’s 5pm. He makes some coffee and we are just laughing and laughing having a great time. He starts to poke me on my side, tells me Im blushing. I start to hug him…because I was so happy to finally see him. I made more moves…one thing led to another. We watch TV and eventually go outside and talk some more…this time he starts talking about his ex..right after we …I was like wth?!. I didn’t say anything. We go back inside watch more TV and he says he needs to go to the car…do you want food? I said what ever you want. I could see the light of his phone and him sitting in his truck ( I turned the lights off). 15 mins goes by he leaves and never comes back. I told him.come back…he said we will talk tomorrow and I’ll see you. (He had spoken about his ex before and I td him it hurt me)***

    What would you do in a situation like this? Would you react or not?

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    Raven

    Did you move to FL because of him?

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    Julie Thomas

    No, I was going to move before speaking to him.

    #934396 Reply
    Raven

    So… Why did you sleep with him?

    #934400 Reply
    Maddie

    I don’t think there’s anything to react to, unfortunately. He spoke a good game and made promises to get you into bed. Any guy saying he’ll do all that for you before you even meet isn’t for real, unfortunately, especially strangers you connect with online. There’s lots of people online looking for relationships, and plenty of others who want physical only or whatever they can get, sometimes even just fantasy penpals they have no real intention of ever meeting.

    I’m sorry this happened to you, but hopefully you enjoyed talking to him while it lasted. If you’re newer to online dating, there are some threads around here with some advice about it (like if a guy you’ve recently connected with is running hot and cold or waiting too long to meet or messaging every day but not making dates, all sorts of red flags if you’re looking for something real to develop).

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    Raven

    I’d like to hear what @Julie Thomas has to say…

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