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Kylie
So I talk to one of my best guy friends practically everyday. We both have the same sense of humor (some of it dark humor), and we both really enjoy each other’s company and love talking to each other, sometimes having 2-3 hour long conversations. Today, I talked to him on the phone while I was at the gym (if he weren’t on a trucking job, he’d likely be at the gym with me) and on my way home. I had said something and he had said “Well good for you, now go die (he didn’t mean it literally as like I said we both have dark humor). No don’t actually go do that. If you were to die, I’d be extremely heart broken. Like, if you died, I’d be like “I can’t do this.” You’ve become a huge part of my life and I don’t know why.” What does he mean by this???
Tallspicy
Who knows. Sounds like blah blah blah. But, it sounds like he likes you. Just take it as a weird compliment.
Warasen
It means you’re a good friend and he would miss you if you died.
Sophia
It means you’re a great friend that he’d miss. Don’t muck up the friendship by thinking it means something romantic.
Lane
Agree with others in that it means he would sorely miss you if you die no differently than he would sorely miss others he has a bond with such as his parents, siblings, relatives, male friends, etc.
Men are really easy to read, pretty much say it like it is without any hidden meaning or motives behind their words. Always best to interpret them as they state it, no differently than you would with a male boss, male co-worker, male sibling, dad, uncle, etc. For instance, If a man say’s “I’m not looking for anything serious” it means “I am not going to get serious with you.” Those who don’t heed those words are going to get hurt. If a man say’s “let’s do such and such” and he doesn’t follow through or make plans then it means “It sounded good at that moment but I really had no intention of doing it.”
The proper formula to apply to a man is WORDS + ACTIONS = TRUTH. If he does what he says, and says what he does on a consistent basis only then you can determine if he’s a “good man” (is of good solid character) or not because if his words mean nothing (aka “empty promises”) then he’s not someone you can trust or rely on and will be constantly let down and disappointed. In a nutshell, he sounds like a good guy who likes to talk and hang out with you as “a friend” or he would have taken it to the romantic level long ago as men go after what they want—that’s another guy clue when they are romantically interested in a lady.
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