We can’t be in a relationship, should I still be friends: Update. Advice needed

Yes Rubi, I understand it’s probably hard to just break up so easily and I would never push for him to leave her for me. It’s all his choice, I just didn’t like the back and forth and confusion he has. But yes, I am going to withdraw and do me. I don’t wanna keep getting attached since there is so much uncertainty.

Update: We had a conversation cause he was worried I was acting differently and I told him to figure himself first. He admitted that he liked me and he definitely feels something but he is also confused and agreed he needs to figure things out. I asked that we also limit contacts during this period, he didn’t like it but that’s what I want. I know alot of people here wanted me to block him but it was really hard and I believe this step I took is still some progress.
But it doesn’t feel good, how do I accept that this is happening, I had hopes for this to work out without all these ups and downs and now I’m not even sure it would. How do I stop think about him and just move past this.
This is probably a dumb question but I still have the urge to just hold on but I know that’s wrong , i need help letting go

Thank you Raven, I’m trying.
I’ve also decided to go off social media for a while to clear my head. I’d also try to distract myself too.